You may personally know a woman who's had her fair share of trials (and many of us had them) yet somehow, she still manages to stay positive, to able to laugh and play, even live a rather satisfying and juicy life-despite having gone through some really stressful times, what's her secret? How does she rise above the negatives in life and create personal fulfillment and happiness?
It all starts with keeping the faith. It's also about your attitude and perspective, your resilience and determination! And everytime we put some effort into improving our perspective, well-being and quality of life, it's like we're sowing little magical seeds. We'll certainly be harvesting the juicy fruits later!
There's a saying that, the only thing in life that will always remain the same is change. Change must be expected, in some form or another, in our own personal lives, we also have the power to make the necessary positive life changes - If we really want to. You have to be willing to face change. And, never play a victim in life. Besides being soo unattractive, it's rather pathetic, refuse to be defeated by life and take some charge!
Even when we find ourselves in some sort of stressful or unexpected adverse situation, we can always find some solace in the fact that this particular situation can and will (with patience and determination) change. For the better too. So, if you're currently unhappy with your life, or some particular aspect of it, become proactive. In otherwords, get to work on solving the problem!
Besides God, you are the architect of your own life, as well as your destiny. You can start taking action today to live a much juicier life - a life by design perhaps. When a woman starts to work on that place called 'self' she begins to blossom to grow, and achieve things that she may have never thought possible.
Instead of reacting negatively to life, commit to creating your life from hope and faith, by using the law of attraction and from your heart and soul, rather than worry, pessimissm or fear. It also takes some courage to be able to find ways to improve your repertoire, and recover from your precious losses and mistakes. But you can do it! Where there's a will, there's a way.
And, when it comes to mistakes we've all made them. I definitely believe that life is all about learning, trying, and failing, wining, and lossing. Also, I believe that feeling happy can be relatively easy if you simply decide to be a much happier person than you currently are.
Interestingly, that great man Abraham Lincoln observed that most people have the choice of how happy or stressed, relaxed or troubles etc. Their outlook happens to be. The choice is simple really create happiness by choosing to be happy! This is far more positive and proactive than allowing ourselves to wallow in self pity, don't you think?
Don't forget too, that a happy and peaceful woman (a 'yin' woman who has a warm and genuine smile, and smile a lot) is really, really attractive to men! And, what man would want to be around a pessimistic, highly strung or misarable woman for very long?
But if a woman is resilient, can take the good with the bad is serene (even if she has to make some sort of effort in becoming so) is naturally optimistic and hopeful, is enthusiastic and fun-loving. A man will much more likely want to share his happiness (and juicy life) with her!
Being grateful is also a wonderful (and helpful) attitude for a woman to have. We have so much to be thankful for don't we? And, let's also thank God for being alive! Faith in a higher source is most recommended for creating happiness.
Be content with what you have. Find acceptance. Accept that life isn't supposed to be perfect - and you're certainly not perfect either! But behind your human imperfections can lie a great deal of courage and tenacity.
Let go of the past ( and forgive ) - this is NOW!
Let's not forget the power of laughter! laughter is simply the best medicine for life's aches and pain's do you agree? when things get a little bumpy, it's sometimes good to think about the things that make us laugh, as well as be prepared to regularly laugh at ourselves. Many of us don't seem to realize that the best kind of laughter is often laughing at ourselves!
From: The art of being feminine
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