Every woman wants to be irresistible to the men they meet. The problem is that there are so many ways to appeal to a man's emotions that we often don't know where to start!But here's the answer -- it all boils down to one thing, and one thing only. And that's knowing how to get past his defenses and seduce his HEART. And I can teach you exactly how in the website below:
When you ask 100 other women about what they think you should have in order to be irresistible to men, you'll likely receive 100 totally different answers! That's why it's so hard to find out exactly what it takes to make men like us. As usual, it's Alexandra Fox to the rescue. I won't tell you 100 different ways to be irresistible, because when it comes down to it, there's only one way you can make a guy fall madly in love with you. What is it? It's to break his logical defenses (his mind), and appeal directly to his emotions (his heart.) And that's precisely what we'll be talking about in today's e-newsletter!
HOW TO BE IRRESISTIBLE
Appealing to his emotions actually comes in three stages. The closer you stick to the order of these three stages, and the more steadily you progress through these stages, the more strongly he'll feel for you. The three stages are: (1) his physical interest, (2) his intellectual interest, and finally (3) his emotional interest. Let's talk about each one in detail.
The physical interest is where everything starts. You've heard of "physical attraction," right? It's a very important stage as a man develops feelings for you. It's where everything takes off! Appealing to his physical interest is straightforward enough -- when you look as beautiful as you can possibly be, and
when you dress correctly for the occasion/setting, you're basically inviting him in with your appearance. When you catch his eye and attention, you'll naturally catch a piece of his heart! His intellectual interest is the second stage, and this usually takes a few dates or meetings to establish. When you finally start talking and getting to know each other, you'll start out as friends. And your relationship will be punctuated with fun, meaningful, enjoyable conversations. The better you are at carrying a conversation, and the more topics you can easily talk about, the more he's going to like you. And when you've peaked his intellectual interest, he's going to start thinking about the NEXT stage of your relationship! The third stage is triggering his EMOTIONAL interest, and this is where things get pretty exciting. Late in the second stage (intellectual interest), you'll start talking about each other. This is when you reveal to him your beliefs, your challenges, and your goals in life.
I hope you see the pattern so far -- first, you appeal to his eyes. Then, you appeal to his mind. And finally, when you've gotten through his mind, it's time to appeal to his heart! But this is also where you find out whether or not he's ready for a real, long-term relationship. Only the REAL MEN out there will sympathize with your challenges and goals. And they won't stop there -- they'll also feel an ACHE in their hearts to help you achieve your goals! So he's going to find every opportunity he can to spend more time with you. And that's how a solid, long-term relationship starts out!
Remember -- physical, intellectual, and then emotional. Keep these three steps in mind when you're building your relationship with the man you love!
ARE YOU DOING IT RIGHT?
Of course, while you're progressing through the three steps, it's helpful to know whether or not you're doing things right. That's why it's important to observe him during the date -- how he talks, how he acts, how he looks at you. Here are the signs you'll want to see:
#1 - Does he talk slowly and clearly?
If he cares about you, he's going to make sure he's getting through to you. So he speaks slowly and clearly, it means what he's saying is "for your ears only" -- and that's a good sign! On the other hand, if he speaks very quickly and carelessly, it could mean that he doesn't really care too much about getting through to you.
#2 - Does he sit or walk close to you?
If he's interested in you, he'll sit close to you -- plain and simple. He'll walk close beside you, offering
the opportunity to lock arms or hold hands. And when you sit in a booth table, he's going to sit on the same side. These are all signs that you're doing things right! On the other hand, if he keeps "respectful" distance, or when he walks ahead or behind you wherever you go, it usually means he's not really comfortable around you.
#3 - Does he face you at a table?
When you're sitting at a table with him, does he face you squarely? Or does he sit with his shoulder pointing at your chest? His posture will clue you in on just how much attention he's paying to you. If
he's sitting squarely and facing you, then it means he's VERY interested, listening to every word you have to say!
#4 - Does he maintain eye contact?
Another way of telling whether or not you're doing the right thing is to see if he's maintaining eye contact. Staring into your eyes is a natural indication of his emotional interest -- he's basically saying, "Tell me more, I'd love to know everything about you!" On the other hand, if you find him staring at your lips instead, it could mean that he's bored, and he's not really interested in the things you have
to say. It's worse when he's staring at something much LOWER than your lips -- it's an indication that he's not really into long-term relationships! Also, if you find him staring at parts of your body other than your eyes, it could mean that you're doing great in peaking his "physical" interest, but you need a little more work in triggering his intellectual interest!
HOW TO CAPTURE HIS HEART
So ladies, I've just taught you the three steps you'll need to take in capturing a man's heart cleanly,
completely, and for good. When you keep these steps in order -- physical, intellectual, and then emotional – you stand your best chance in building a strong, enjoyable, long-term relationship. -Alexandra Fox-
When you ask 100 other women about what they think you should have in order to be irresistible to men, you'll likely receive 100 totally different answers! That's why it's so hard to find out exactly what it takes to make men like us. As usual, it's Alexandra Fox to the rescue. I won't tell you 100 different ways to be irresistible, because when it comes down to it, there's only one way you can make a guy fall madly in love with you. What is it? It's to break his logical defenses (his mind), and appeal directly to his emotions (his heart.) And that's precisely what we'll be talking about in today's e-newsletter!
HOW TO BE IRRESISTIBLE
Appealing to his emotions actually comes in three stages. The closer you stick to the order of these three stages, and the more steadily you progress through these stages, the more strongly he'll feel for you. The three stages are: (1) his physical interest, (2) his intellectual interest, and finally (3) his emotional interest. Let's talk about each one in detail.
The physical interest is where everything starts. You've heard of "physical attraction," right? It's a very important stage as a man develops feelings for you. It's where everything takes off! Appealing to his physical interest is straightforward enough -- when you look as beautiful as you can possibly be, and
when you dress correctly for the occasion/setting, you're basically inviting him in with your appearance. When you catch his eye and attention, you'll naturally catch a piece of his heart! His intellectual interest is the second stage, and this usually takes a few dates or meetings to establish. When you finally start talking and getting to know each other, you'll start out as friends. And your relationship will be punctuated with fun, meaningful, enjoyable conversations. The better you are at carrying a conversation, and the more topics you can easily talk about, the more he's going to like you. And when you've peaked his intellectual interest, he's going to start thinking about the NEXT stage of your relationship! The third stage is triggering his EMOTIONAL interest, and this is where things get pretty exciting. Late in the second stage (intellectual interest), you'll start talking about each other. This is when you reveal to him your beliefs, your challenges, and your goals in life.
I hope you see the pattern so far -- first, you appeal to his eyes. Then, you appeal to his mind. And finally, when you've gotten through his mind, it's time to appeal to his heart! But this is also where you find out whether or not he's ready for a real, long-term relationship. Only the REAL MEN out there will sympathize with your challenges and goals. And they won't stop there -- they'll also feel an ACHE in their hearts to help you achieve your goals! So he's going to find every opportunity he can to spend more time with you. And that's how a solid, long-term relationship starts out!
Remember -- physical, intellectual, and then emotional. Keep these three steps in mind when you're building your relationship with the man you love!
ARE YOU DOING IT RIGHT?
Of course, while you're progressing through the three steps, it's helpful to know whether or not you're doing things right. That's why it's important to observe him during the date -- how he talks, how he acts, how he looks at you. Here are the signs you'll want to see:
#1 - Does he talk slowly and clearly?
If he cares about you, he's going to make sure he's getting through to you. So he speaks slowly and clearly, it means what he's saying is "for your ears only" -- and that's a good sign! On the other hand, if he speaks very quickly and carelessly, it could mean that he doesn't really care too much about getting through to you.
#2 - Does he sit or walk close to you?
If he's interested in you, he'll sit close to you -- plain and simple. He'll walk close beside you, offering
the opportunity to lock arms or hold hands. And when you sit in a booth table, he's going to sit on the same side. These are all signs that you're doing things right! On the other hand, if he keeps "respectful" distance, or when he walks ahead or behind you wherever you go, it usually means he's not really comfortable around you.
#3 - Does he face you at a table?
When you're sitting at a table with him, does he face you squarely? Or does he sit with his shoulder pointing at your chest? His posture will clue you in on just how much attention he's paying to you. If
he's sitting squarely and facing you, then it means he's VERY interested, listening to every word you have to say!
#4 - Does he maintain eye contact?
Another way of telling whether or not you're doing the right thing is to see if he's maintaining eye contact. Staring into your eyes is a natural indication of his emotional interest -- he's basically saying, "Tell me more, I'd love to know everything about you!" On the other hand, if you find him staring at your lips instead, it could mean that he's bored, and he's not really interested in the things you have
to say. It's worse when he's staring at something much LOWER than your lips -- it's an indication that he's not really into long-term relationships! Also, if you find him staring at parts of your body other than your eyes, it could mean that you're doing great in peaking his "physical" interest, but you need a little more work in triggering his intellectual interest!
HOW TO CAPTURE HIS HEART
So ladies, I've just taught you the three steps you'll need to take in capturing a man's heart cleanly,
completely, and for good. When you keep these steps in order -- physical, intellectual, and then emotional – you stand your best chance in building a strong, enjoyable, long-term relationship. -Alexandra Fox-
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