I Have Learned

I’ve learned-
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned-
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned-
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned-
that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned-
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned-
that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned-
that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned-
that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned-
that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned-
that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned-
that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned-
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned-
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned-
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned-
that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

By Omer B. Washington

Men Should Read This..

For any men who are having a hard time with the influx of the Divine Feminine and Venus energy, or who are still holding on to the old Ego conditioning of control and dominance - you can rest assured that it is not about Women taking over, it is about Union, the Heart, and restoring her position, as she brings balance, justice, transformation, nurturing, wisdom and intuition to our Earthly experience.

This force is what awakens the Divine Masculine, who can feel safe to let that old paradigm programing go, because he knows that without her being in her true position of power, we will not be able to survive. He also knows that she exists within him, as he exists within her.

He is not threatened by her power - because they are a team. As she inspires him, he impregnates her ethereally with the vision of a peaceful world, that gets anchored by their Alchemical union, planting seeds in the depths of darkness to create new realities, purifying the Mother Womb into the Creative Cauldron of Regeneration, as the power of their intention and devotion, kicks out all those who inhabit her realms, those who steal energy and rob souls, to feed their dark agendas.

It restores the divine templates and inner divine blueprint, bringing all creatures, beings and elements into a conscious knowing breath of Oneness. IT re-awakens the true Cosmic Dance that doesn't need to struggle with power games, but instead truly honors the beauty of their movements together, as it acts as force-field of light and protection around all those who choose to know this within.

IT repairs the divorce, the separation, the corrupted gender roles that exploit the body and all that is Sacred, damaging self-worth, integrity, access to higher consciousness and the ability to initiate oneself organically into a place of self-acceptance, integrity, honor and co-creation with Gaia and Cosmic Forces...

So Men, do not feel threatened by the energies that are increasing and expanding ~ and Women - don't fear your power because you remember being persecuted or killed in the past. Lets truly love and respect one another. This is our time to Rise together as One!

Lihat Kebunku

I Love You...

I can't promise you the world,
But I can try to give you a happy life.
I can't promise you I'll never make mistakes,
But I can try the best I can.
I can't promise you that I'll catch you every time you fall,
But I can try to always be close by so I can help you back up.
I can't promise that our love will last forever like in storybooks,
But I can promise that no matter what, I'll never forget the memories I made with you.........

~unknown~

To someone..

Keep On Believing

Birthday Girl..

Hari ini usiaku 36 tahun.  Tahun berlalu dengan cepatnya dan kini aku semakin dewasa dan merasa semakin tua..Orang bijak mengatakan bahwa wanita itu sedang seksi-seksinya di usia 30 an, seksi karena passionnya pada dunia dan kehidupannya.  Dia semakin sadar pada apa yang diinginkannya dan cerdas karena pengalamannya. 

Aku bahagia sekali pada ulang tahunku hari ini, aku dikelilingi oleh teman-teman yang baik, yang sayang padaku dan juga peduli.  Pelajaranku yang berarti adalah, kita dapat melihat siapa teman yang tulus dan benar-benar baik hati dari caranya mereka menyampaikan doa bagi kita yang berulang tahun.  Mau dia kenal dekat dengan kita ataupun tidak.  Tapi ada juga sebagian dari mereka yang meskipun kenal, tapi mereka acuh saja pura-pura tidak tahu dan tidak peduli.  Bagiku sih bukan hal penting jika mereka berlaku seperti itu, bagiku teman seperti itu sih aku anggap ya iri dan dengki saja denganku:)  

Bukan masalah mengharap di beri ucapan selamat ya..tapi bagiku kita bisa melihat siapa teman kita yang benar-benar baik hati.  Itu saja sih.  Bagiku, mengucapkan atau tidak itu mencerminkan siapa mereka  yang sebenarnya.  Fokusku hanya pada teman-temanku yang baik hati saja.  Dan hari ini teman-temanku yang baik hati itu datang ke rumah membawa sedikit kejutan untukku..A birthday cake!

Aku bersyukur pada Allah, disaat aku mengira aku sendiri di dunia ini..ternyata dibukakan mataku bahwa ada teman sejati yang masih peduli denganku.  Teman-teman yang masih mau menyempatkan waktu dan mengingat hari istimewaku.  Sebuah hadiah yang tak ternilai dari Tuhan.  Didalam doaku, aku menyampaikan rasa syukurku bahwa aku masih diberi kesempatan hidup hingga detik ini, dikasihi oleh orang-orang terdekat yang mencintai aku.  Serta masih bisa berbagi nasi kuning sederhana dengan sahabat-sahabatku.  Alhamdulillah..

 Kemarin, aku sempat berharap ada yg mau memberiku sebuah birthday cake..now voila! it's in front of me!:-) xixixi..cherrynya sudah kumakan duluan tuh..

 With my besties..I love them all:)

 Owh come on ladies..do i have to blow the candle? Hmm..my wishes..are..

Jamuan ulang tahun yang sederhana.  Simple tapi bahagia makan siang bersama teman-temanku tercinta

Kepada teman-temanku tercinta yang telah mengucapkan birthday wishes untukku..Terima kasih banyak atas doa-doa yang kalian panjatkan untukku.  Meski tak ada kata-kata yang terucap langsung dari bibirku, ketahuilah aku sangat menyayangi dan menghargai keberadaan kalian dalam hidupku.  Allah memberkati kalian semua.  Dan Mitha..be strong, be wise, be loveable, be a good mother and be autiful..:)

A Wise Word From Prabu Siliwangi

Laki-laki akan sukses bila memiliki seorang kekasih dihatinya, tapi laki-laki akan gagal bila hatinya ada dimana-mana. - Prabu Siliwangi-

Note: Prabu Siliwangi adalah raja dari kerajaan Padjajaran.

The Present Wrapping Oracle

You Are Confident

You go all out when you give gifts. You want to give a present that will wow, even if it's a little over the top. You are spontaneous and impulsive. You tend to do things quickly, and you're quite impatient. You are somewhat organized, but you always feel like you could be doing a bit better! You have high standards for yourself. You love to dress up and take care of yourself. You get a lot of confidence from looking sharp.

The Present Wrapping Oracle

The Birthday Cake Test

You Are Outrageous and Optimistic

You are the type of person who lives life to the fullest. You believe in going big or going home. You aren't shy about what you want, and you aren't afraid to get it either. You really go for it! You have a bold personality, and you tend to be attracted to anything or anyone who is over the top. You are open minded, and you have eclectic taste. You truly can appreciate all the flavors of the world.

The Birthday Cake Test

Tomorrow is my birthday!  wanna blackforest cake like this!

What Thousand Dollar Shoe Are You?

You Are an Elegant and Magnetic Shoe

You are convincing and magnetic. Persuasion is an art form for you. You are fascinating and alluring. People are definitely interested in what's going on in your life. You shine when it comes to negotiating conflict. You can craft win-win situations. You like to let loose but you always maintain your composure. You are always classy.

What Thousand Dollar Shoe Are You?

The Wedding Cake Test

You Are a Low Key Wedding

Love makes you feel calm and at peace. Simply being around those you care for brings out the best in you. To be unloved would make you feel like there was something missing in your life. You'd survive it, but you would have a lonely existence. For you, romantic love is steady and undying. You've gotten to the point in your life where commitment matters a lot to you. When you love someone, you are prepared to be there for that person... for better or worse. Whether you're married or not, you're completely true.

The Wedding Cake Test

People Who Never Leave You

A Beautiful Woman

Dua Hati Yang Saling Jatuh Cinta

Entre deux coeurs qui s'aiment, nul besoin de paroles.  

Diantara dua hati yang saling jatuh cinta, tidak diperlukan ungkapan kata-kata.

To Love Means..

To love means loving the unlovable.
To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable.
Faith means believing the unbelievable.
Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.

Gilbert Chesterton

I Love You..I Mean It..

"It's not who you are to the world, it's who you are to me. It's not how many times I say I love you... it's how much I really do."
~ Mary Ann

Lovers

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They are in each other all along. ♥~ Rumi

Tanda-tanda Pria Serius Dalam Hubungan

A good lesson for me..Tanda-tanda Pria Serius Dalam Hubungan

Don't Hurt Me

Aku tidak pernah bisa mengerti mengapa seorang pria bisa menyakiti hati wanita yang seharusnya dia lindungi, dia kasihi dan dia cintai?  Ini pertanyaan untuk para pria.  Gunakan hatimu.  Sayangi wanita yang Anda pilih, bertahanlah dengannya apapun yang terjadi.  Jangan gunakan kelemahannya sebagai alasan untukmu mengalihkan perhatianmu pada wanita lain.  Dan jangan pernah menyakiti hati wanita lain yang tidak ada di lingkup kehidupanmu dengan pasanganmu.  Sayangi dia, bersabarlah dengannya, kuatkan hatimu terhadap godaan serta cobaan dari luar.  Sayangi semua wanita yang kamu kenal.  Bukan dengan nafsu, tapi dengan menjaga perasaan mereka yang layak dihargai serta dihormati.  

Pria sejati adalah dia yang mencintai dan menghargai pasangannya serta tidak menyakiti atau memanfaatkan hati wanita manapun. Belajarlah untuk setia pada komitmen yang telah kalian buat.  Dan berbesar hatilah untuk meminta maaf pada wanita-wanita yang pernah ada di dalam kehidupanmu salah atau pun tidak, terlebih bagi yang telah kalian sakiti hatinya.  Selalu tanamkan dihatimu NIAT BAIK didalam diri Anda terhadap siapapun.

Your Ship Is Coming

Don't force yourself to accept something simply because you once believed you wanted it.  Because you are honing in on your purpose.  By defining what you don't want, you can figure out what you do want.  That second ship isn't far behind. - Gemini-