Merapikan Tempat Tidur

Bangun tidur kuterus..beresin tempat tidur hehehe..anakku sedang merapikan tempat tidurnya sendiri setelah bangun tidur.  Hebatkan! Membiasakan anak mempunyai kebiasaan baik itu tidak mudah.  Terkadang disiplinnya masih harus terus diingatkan oleh kita orang tuanya.  Meskipun aku sudah memberi contoh padanya untuk menaruh pakaian kotornya di keranjang cucian khusus pakaian kotor, tetap saja dia masih suka membuka pakaiannya di mana-mana huff..tapi, ya kembali lagi pada kita orang tuanya yang tidak boleh lengah mengingatkannya untuk selalu menjaga kerapihan kamar, juga rumahnya.  Tidak apa-apa jika ia lalai sekali-sekali tapi terus ingatkan, ingatkan dan ingatkan lagi sampai dia terbiasa..

Beauty And Deen

“Physical attraction without deen is like food thats not clean. People get confused between beauty and Deen Coz if her deens in check she's a beautiful Queen

Who would wake you up to pray, yes disturbing your dreams
sprinkle water on your face making sure your awake.

She knows patience,respect and real love
She always speaks the truth she someone you can trust. because she follows the teachings of Allah and his Messenger(pbuh) and applies it in her life.

Because the beauty of her deen will last forever but the beauty of her skin will wither…”

Allah is The Greatest

Stand before your Lord with humility, implore the Dispenser of Grace by His Most Beautiful Names and Attributes of perfection. If He fulfills your wish, increase in your gratitude and servitude to Him. If He denies your request, then succumb to the Divine Decree of the All-Wise with a submissive heart. Do not argue or object to His will. Always remember:

"…Allah knows and you know not." (Quran: 24/19)

Untukmu Yang Hatinya Terluka

Untuk engkau yang hatinya terluka oleh pengkhianatan, kuatkanlah dirimu, walau tubuh dan rahangmu bergetar menahan pedih dan marah.

Ingatlah, bahwa pemedihan hatimu ini adalah cara Tuhan mendekatkanmu kepada dia yang akan mencintaimu dengan keseluruhan pengabdian jiwanya yang setia.

Maka luhurkanlah budimu, indahkanlah perilakumu, agar tidak ada lagi alasan bagi penundaan penyatuanmu dengannya, dalam pernikahan yang mesra, jujur, dan setia, dalam kesejahteraan atau dalam cobaan.

amin..

MT

Belajar

 Belajar Mewarnai..

 Main Drum..

Missing You So Much..

Aku rindu sekali..

Rindu pada si dia yang aku cinta..

Kangen pada suaranya, 

Kangen pada senyumnya,

Kangen pada ciumannya..

Semuanya..

Rindu pada semua yang ada padanya..

Ingin sekali rasanya memeluknya..

Ingin sekali aku menciumnya,

Ingin sekali bercinta dengannya lagi..

Ingin menikmati indahnya kebersamaan kami..

Menikmati kelembutan kami..

Kemesraan kami lagi..

Ingin sekali menjadi miliknya seutuhnya..

Aku tetap menunggumu..sayangku..

Datanglah padaku..

Woman

A woman is like a precious pearl only to be touched or revealed to a select few (mahrams). As Muslims we respect women so much that as non-mahrams we don't shake the hands of women, not out of rudeness but out of our deepest respect for this precious jewel that we do not have a right to touch.

A Healthy Relationship

I asked him what his definition of a healthy relationship is...this is what he shared:

#1 - The primary hallmark of a healthy relationship is having the experience of emotional and physical safety with our partner. They are reliable and predictable and we don’t feel any fear or anxiety around them.

#2 - We have an experience of deep connection with them.

#3 - When you are with your partner you feel joyfully alive or relaxed into joyfulness.

As you set your intentions around manifesting a soulmate, you may want to consciously decide that you will feel safe, deeply connected and joyfully alive with your beloved.

You'll See..Madonna

You think that I can't live Without your love, 

you'll see  

You think I can't go on another day
You think I have nothing  

Without you by my side  

You'll see, somehow, someway
 

You think that I can't Never laugh again, 

you'll see  

You think that you've Destroyed my faith in love
You think after all you've done I'll never find my way back home  

You'll see, somehow, someday
All by myself I don't need anyone at all I know 

I'll survive I know I'll stay alive
All on my own I don't need anyone this time  

It will be mine No one can take it from me You'll see
 

You think that you are strong But you are weak, 

you'll see  

It takes more strength to cry Admit defeat
I have truth on my side You only have deceit  

You'll see, somehow, someday
 

All by myself I don't need anyone at all  

I know I'll survive I know I'll stay alive
I'll stand on my own 

I won't need anyone this time  

It will be mine No one can take it from me You'll see
 

You'll see  

You'll see  

You'll see

To someone..

Grilled Steak

Ingredients

• 1 1/2 pounds tri-tip or sirloin steak, cut into 4 pieces


• kosher salt and black pepper


• 1 fennel bulb, cut into 1/4-inch-thick wedges


• 1 tablespoon olive oil


• 1 lemon, thinly sliced


• 1 tablespoon fresh thyme


• 8 ounces fresh mozzarella, sliced

Directions

1. Heat grill to medium-high.


2. Season the steak with ¾ teaspoon salt and ½ teaspoon pepper. Grill to the desired doneness, 4 to 5 minutes per side for medium-rare.


3. Meanwhile, in a bowl, gently toss the fennel, oil, ½ teaspoon salt, and ¼ teaspoon pepper.


4. Grill the fennel, turning occasionally, until just tender, 5 to 6 minutes. Transfer back to the bowl.


5. Grill the lemon slices until slightly charred, 1 to 2 minutes per side. Toss the lemons with the fennel and thyme. Serve with the steak and mozzarella.

Gingery Salmon With Peaches

 Ingredients

• 1 tablespoon rice vinegar


• 1 tablespoon grated fresh ginger


• 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves


• 4 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil


• kosher salt and pepper


• 2 medium red onions, cut into wedges


• 3 peaches, cut into wedges


• 4 6-ounce salmon steaks (about 1 inch thick)

Directions

1. Heat grill to medium-high. In a small bowl, combine the vinegar, ginger, thyme, 3 tablespoons of the oil, and ¼ teaspoon each salt and pepper. Set aside.


2. In a large bowl, gently toss the onions, peaches, remaining 1 tablespoon oil, ½ teaspoon salt, and ¼ teaspoon pepper.


3. Season the salmon with ½ teaspoon salt and ¼ teaspoon pepper.


4. Grill the salmon and onions until salmon is opaque throughout and onions are tender, 5 to 6 minutes per side.


5. After flipping the salmon, place the peaches on the grill and cook until tender, 3 to 4 minutes per side.


6. Drizzle the salmon with the vinaigrette and serve with the onions and peaches.

Hati Yang Lembut

Hatimu yang mudah merasa kasihan itu tidak lemah,
tetapi justru tanda bahwa engkau adalah jiwa
yang disiapkan bagi peran pelayanan yang besar.

Hati yang kasar dan kejam
tidak akan mampu mengemban tugas
untuk membahagiakan sesama.

Hatimu yang mudah pedih
melihat penderitaan sesama itu adalah rahmat Tuhan
yang sarat dengan bakat dan bibit kualitas terpuji
dari seorang pemimpin.

Bersyukurlah, dan segeralah gunakan rahmat itu
dalam pekerjaan yang membaikkan hidup banyak orang.

Mario Teguh

Spaghetti With Zucchini, Walnuts, and Raisins

 Ingredients

• 12 ounces spaghetti (3⁄4 box)


• 3 tablespoons olive oil


• 1/2 cup walnut halves, roughly chopped


• 4 cloves garlic, thinly sliced


• 1 1/2 pounds small zucchini (4 to 5), cut into thin half-moons


• 3/4 cup raisins


• kosher salt and black pepper


• 1/4 cup grated Parmesan (1 ounce)

Directions

1. Cook the pasta according to the package directions. Drain and return it to the pot.


2. Meanwhile, heat the oil in a skillet over medium-high heat. Add the walnuts and cook, stirring frequently, until beginning to brown, 3 to 4 minutes.


3. Add the garlic and cook, stirring frequently, until beginning to brown, about 1 minute.


4. Add the zucchini and raisins and season with ½ teaspoon salt and ¼ teaspoon pepper. Cook, tossing occasionally, until the zucchini is just tender, 4 to 5 minutes.


5. Add the zucchini mixture to the pasta and toss to combine. Sprinkle with the Parmesan before serving.

Untuk engkau yang sedang patah hati;

Pedih di hatimu itu,
walau serasa akan mencabut nyawamu,
sesungguhnya ia membuka keindahan
sisi kehidupan yang tak mungkin kau kenal
jika engkau tak pernah jatuh cinta.

Sesungguhnya,

Lebih baik jatuh cinta dan patah hati,
daripada tak pernah mengenal cinta.

Semakin engkau terluka,
semakin besar kemampuanmu
untuk memuliakan belahan jiwa
yang sedang disiapkan oleh Tuhan.

Aamiin

Jatuh Cinta Dengan Mulia

Engkau yang sedang dibuai cinta,

Berhati-hatilah dengan cinta
yang liar membara di awal pertemuan,
terutama yang meledak-ledak
dengan semangat untuk mengabaikan
kebaikan dan menghalalkan yang tidak.

Cinta yang paling panas awalnya,
biasanya berakhir paling dingin.

Cinta yang hingar bingar pada awalnya,
biasanya berakhir dengan perpisahan
dalam kesepian yang pedih.

Jatuh cintalah
tapi jangan pernah kehilangan kemuliaan dirimu.

MT

If you're unsure about whether someone loves you or not, and not sure where the relationship is heading..the best thing you can do is just accepting and loving yourself first. Because the most important thing in this world is YOU! -Annonimous-

Menjaga Nama Baik Suami

Seorang wanita yang mengumbar kemarahan dan keburukan suami dihadapan umum, bukan seorang wanita atau istri yang soleh.

Seorang istri seharusnya menjaga nama baik serta harga diri suaminya di depan khalayak umum, seburuk apapun perilakunya. Membuat malu suami dihadapan teman2 dan orang lain, tidak akan memperbaiki kesalahannya justru akan mengundang bencana besar dalam mahligai rumah tangga.

Sangat tidak etis mengumbar masalah rumah tangga di situs jejaring sosial. Biarkan itu menjadi masalah pribadi yang perlu ditutupi rapat-rapat dari khalayak umum.

Masih banyak terdapat wanita-wanita yang tidak sadar akan bahayanya mengumbar emosi didepan umum. Mengapa? Karena itu akan merugikan diri sendiri. Merusak citra diri, harga diri, dan nama baik keluarganya terutama harga diri suaminya.

Banyak jalan menuju roma, banyak cara untuk menyelesaikan sebuah permasalahan dalam rumah tangga. Yang terpenting adalah respek, control diri, dan privasi.

I Forgive My Parents

I see my parents as tiny children who need love. I have compassion for my parents’ childhoods. I now know that I chose them because they were perfect for what I had to learn. I forgive them and set them free, and I set myself free.
- Louise L. Hay

Love According To Bible

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails