Marry these kind of women:

1. The Patient :The woman who remains patient in all circumstances, and never whines, moans and complains. When some trouble or affliction hits her, she turns to Allah for help.

2. The Protector; The woman who protects her husband's wealth & her chastity When he is away from home. When he returns , she does not burden him with the day's problems , but listens attentively to his needs and does her best to take his tiredness away.

3. The Lover: The women who adores her husband & craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her, duaa pours for her from the bottom of his heart.

4. The Do-Gooder: The women who has an excellent reputation in society - for being kind, caring & courteous to all.  She is good with her neighbours & relatives and never backbites or displays jealousy.

5. The Content; The women who never casts her eyes at material things and is content with whatever little her husband gives her. She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feeds her, every clothe that he gifts her, including the roof over her head. She makes her gratefulness known to him in words & action and thus, soothes her husband's heart.

6. The Pious: The women who spends much of her day in dhikr, tilaawat-e Quran & Salah and her nights in praying tahajjud & crying to Allah for forgiveness. She encourages her husband to give daw'ah in his spare time.

7. The Sweet Smiler: The woman who smiles excessively..esp. when her husband is at home. She always talks gently that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never raises her voice while talking to her husband. If her husband is angry with her for some reason & shouts at her, she does not answer him back but maintains a dignified silence. When he has calmed down , she offers him cool water & apologizes to him even if she wasn't at
fault.

(http://www.PureMatrimony.com/)

Rules Of A Lady..

Sentuhan Ibuku

Ibu..
Terima kasih sudah menemaniku yang tergolek lemah
Terima kasih untuk semua pengorbanan, keikhlasan ibu memaafkan aku.
Terima kasih karena berada disisiku ketika aku resah gelisah.

Ibu..
Sentuhan ibu adalah sentuhan kasih Tuhan kepadaku..
Tangan ibu adalah keajaiban  yang menyentuhku dengan sangat nyaman.
Apalah artinya aku bila ibu tak ada..

Ibu..
Aku sayang ibu..
Maafkan anak ibu yang terkadang keras kepala ini..
Terima kasih sudah menyayangiku dan juga anakku dengan lelah yang sama

Terima kasih telah membiarkan aku kembali menjadi anak kecil ketika aku lemah tak berdaya.

Aku tahu ibu adalah wanita yang hebat, kuat dan tabah seperti dinding besar china.
Aku tahu ibu punya banyak kesedihan dan kekuatiran dihati melihat anak-anak ibu.
Tapi ibu sembunyikan semuanya dibalik ketegaran yang entah darimana datangnya.
Aku ingin menjadi wanita seperti dirimu Ibu.
Menjadi ibu yang kuat bagi anakku.

I love you mommy..

7 BEAUTY TIPS FOR SISTERS IN ISLAM

1- To beautify your eyes, lower your gaze towards strange men, this will make your eyes pure and shiny.
2- To beautify your face and make it shiny, keep doing ablution (wuzhu)' minimum five times a day....
3- To have attractive lips, always mention ALLAH and remember to speak the truth.
4- As for blush and rouge, "Modesty" (Hayaa') is one of the best brands.
5- Now about your hair, if any of you has a problem of hair split ends, then I suggest "Islamic Hijab", which will protect your hair from damage.
6- As for jewelry, beautify your hands with humbleness and let your hands be generous and give charity to the poor.
7- To avoid heart disease, forgive people who hurt your feelings.

If you follow these advices given to you by the Creator, you will have a beautiful and attractive inner outer appearance Insha' Allah.

A Marriage Proporsal

A man asked Hasan bin ali(ra):"I have a daughter and people have proposed her, so to whom should i marry her"?

He said: "Marry her to one who fear Allah,for if he loves her, he will honour her,and if he hates her, he will not wrong her".

Rela Berdesakan..Jeleknya Sistem Transportasi Indonesia

Ini nih pengalaman saya naik Trans Jakarta minggu lalu.  Saya perhatikan orang-orang suka sekali yang namanya berdesakan.  Sudah tahu bis yang saya tumpangi ini penuh sesak, tapi orang-orang yang sudah menunggu di halte ini masih saja ngotot naik kedalamnya.  Padahal masih banyak lho bis lain dengan trayek yang sama dibelakang sana.  Kenapa sih mereka tidak bersabar sedikit saja hingga bis berikutnya tiba? Kenapa ya mereka senang sekali berdesakan hanya karena malas menunggu alias tidak sabar? 

Memang publik transportasi seperti ini tergolong murah meriah, cepat dan bebas hambatan, tapi dari segi kenyamanan masih saja belum bisa teratasi.  Ya contohnya seperti ini.  Bukan hanya itu saja, kebodohan orang-orang kita, lihat saja kasus mobil pribadi dan motor yang ikut-ikutan menggunakan jalur busway demi kelancaran berkendara mereka.  Enak saja mereka dengan santai masuk ke lajur bus khusus untuk menghindari kemacetan.  Padahal hal ini jelas berbahaya!  Terutama untuk motor.  Bagaimana jika terseruduk bis besar ini? yang ada bis yang dipersalahkan padahal sudah jelas-jelas motornya yang salah masuk ke jalur yang bukan untuknya.

Oke itu kasus Trans Jakarta, kali ini saya ingin membahas kejelekan transportasi lain yakni Taksi.  Sepulang Saya dari Jakarta, saya dihadapkan oleh lagi-lagi kemacetan lalu lintas di jalan Cihampelas Bandung.  Terbayang betapa lelahnya saya seharian melakukan perjalanan Jakarta-Bandung yang ditempuh selama hampir 3 jam.  Yang apes adalah ketika saya harus menunggu taksi lewat.  Tunggu punya tunggu hampir selama satu jam lebih tidak ada satupun taksi kosong yang lewat.  Yang lebih menyebalkan lagi, ketika pada akhirnya ada satu taksi kosong lewat, saya pikir masalah sudah selesai ternyata ketika supir itu bertanya hendak kemana tujuan saya pergi, si supir menolak untuk mengantarkan saya pulang ke daerah Ciumbuleuit dengan alasan MACET!  

Bukan kepalang betapa jengkelnya saya, apalagi si supir meminta Rp. 50.000 untuk mengantar ke tujuan saya bloggers.  Saya turun dari taksi dengan perasaan yang sudah tak keruan, ya kesal dan lelah semuanya sudah hampir membuat saya breakdown.  Untung saya masih mampu mengendalikan emosi jiwa yang meninggi saat itu hahaha..Coba deh, betapa hal tersebut bodoh bukan?  

Yang namanya jasa kok bisa seenaknya memilih untuk menolak penumpang? Cerita apalagi sih ini?  Mentang-mentang macet, taksi dengan seenaknya menurunkan penumpang di jalan dan meminta 50 ribu rupiah jika ingin diantar hingga tujuan.  Apa ini sistem pemerasan? wah wah wah..  Untunglah pada akhirnya kesabaranku berbuah manis, tiba-tiba lewatlah taksi penyelamatku Blue Bird.  Memang taksi ini untuk urusan service patut diacungkan jempol.  Tidak pernah yang namanya mereka menolak penumpang meskipun itu jauh atau dekat sekalipun. 

Terkadang saya hanya bisa menggelengkan kepala melihat tingkah laku masyarakat yang suka seenaknya ini.  Mereka tidak peduli dengan keselamatan, kenyamanan, dan kedisiplinan pribadi.  Harus dengan cara apa ya supaya bangsa ini mau belajar merubah sikap acuh seperti ini?  Apakah harus memperbarui undang-undang, peraturan-peraturan dan hukum dengan lebih cermat dan teliti?

Yah..ini sih sebagai bahan renungan saja buat kita semua, khususnya saya sebagai warga pengguna jasa transportasi.  Please tingkatkan dong pelayanan umum kita untuk masyarakat, dan untuk kita sendiri cobalah gunakan sense dan akal kita untuk lebih mau mendisiplinkan diri sendiri di muka umum.

Meeting With My Friends..

Perjalanan selama dua hari untuk bertemu teman-teman lama di Jakarta yang penuh suka dan duka.  Sukanya kita bertemu kembali setelah bertahun-tahun lamanya tak sua, disertai duka sepanjang perjalanannya macet, panas dan nyasar saudara-saudara..hahaha..but anyway..it was my adventure though..it seems not as nice as i expected but it was fun.

HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE

Let's say it's 6.15pm and you're going home (alone of course),
after an unusually hard day on the job. You're really tired, upset and frustrated. Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don't know if you'll be able to make it that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself..!!

NOW HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE..

Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.
However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously.
A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest.
A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.
Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating.
The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.

Rather than sharing jokes please.. contribute by Sharing this which can save a person's life!!!!

Dear My Future Husband..

Dear Future Husband, Asalaamualaykum 

I don't want to be your girlfriend.
I just want to be the one you call your wife.
Your presence will give me happiness.
You’ll be my halal prince charming.
Riding your horse of Taqwa. Holding onto the noble Qur'aan and the Sunnah of our beloved and blessed Rasool'Allah sal'Allahu alaiyhi wasallam in your right hand.

 
I hear you’re worth the wait, so I'll wait In shaALLAH.
My heart belongs to no one in this Dunyaa, I just thought I should let you know.
It belongs to ALLAH subhanahu wa ta'aala and only Him. 

You'll have to get lost in Him and the beauty of Islam to find me
and even then you'll still have to rightfully become a part of my heart. 

Only through Him subhanahu wa ta'aala. What I'm trying to say is that WE have to devote our
lives and heart to Allah subhanahu wa ta'aala and his beautiful beloved Prophet salAllahu alaiyhi wasallam
in order to find eachother. I hope you’re up for the journey.
I know I am!

-Purity Matrimony-

What greater thing is there for two human souls that to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.
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UNDERSTAND SUFFERING

“When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.”

~Thich Nhat Hanh

What's Your Heavenly Name?

Your Name is Helene Venus

Simply heavenly!

What's Your Heavenly Name?

What Does Your Least Favorite Food Say About You?

Your Hatred of Broccoli Says You're Easygoing

You have a lot of enthusiasm for life, people, and opportunities. You are optimistic. You shine when it comes to negotiating conflict. You can craft win-win situations. You are both persuasive and talkative. You know what you like, and you love to evangelize. You respond well to the unexpected. You know better than to try to plan for life.

What Does Your Least Favorite Food Say About You?

Are You a Hawk or a Dove?

You Are a Dove

You believe that it's important to keep the peace. There's too much fighting in the world these days. You understand why conflict happens, but more importantly, you understand its effects. You know that you can't bring about world peace. However, you do believe that all of your actions have consequences. You try to do your part by being compassionate and seeing both sides of things. Whenever possible, you try to mediate disputes.

Are You a Hawk or a Dove?

What's Your Life's Challenge?

Your Life's Challenge is Being Fickle

The whole world is open to you. You are a smart person with many resources and opportunities. You've lucked out a lot in life. Things always seem to go your way, and you've had many successes. You may be surprised to learn that you are standing in the way of more success by being a bit too irresponsible and flaky. If you stuck to things a bit longer, you would rule the world. You have much more in you than you even realize.

What's Your Life's Challenge?