Sunday, April 15, 2012

A Voice


... ི♥ྀ.
Sometimes out of nowhere you get
a feeling or hear a voice saying
everythings going to be ok, trust
this for it's your inner wisdom learn to
still your mind and listen to the
guidance...
(¯`v´¯) ....♥ Chrissy ♥․´`• ․ ․ . . .`•
`*.¸.*.♥.✿´´¯`
☼•*❤*•°•❥ℒƠѵℯ & Hugz..☆ . ƸӜƷ¸.☆.

Saturday, April 14, 2012

She..


When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.
When she is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.
When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much inspite of being taken for granted.
When she calls you everyday, she wants to know how you are doing.
When she sms's you everyday, she wants you to reply at least once.
When she says I love you, she means it.
When she says I miss you, no one in this world can miss you more than her.
When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.
Your wives are always special. She is said to be the 8th wonder. She is always a priceless treasure.

Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted!

Friday, April 13, 2012

Ketulusan Hati

Cinta yang indah itu hadir dari ketulusan hati.  Kita tak perlu berharap dicintai balik, tapi lebih memilih untuk memberi kasih sayang kepada orang yang kita sayangi.  Membiarkan orang yang kita cintai menjadi diri sendiri, dan tetap berada bersamanya selama apapun yang dia inginkan.  Bukan bersikap sebagai keset, tapi mencintai dengan caraku.  

Aku percaya bahwa setiap manusia seharusnya bersikap baik terhadap sesama meskipun dengan orang yang tidak baik dengannya sekalipun.  Meskipun orang yang kita cintai tidak bisa membalas cinta kita, kita tetap memberi yang terbaik dari diri kita untuknya atas dasar kasih sayang.

Tetap memberi yang terbaik hingga waktu memisahkan kita.  Aku percaya hidup ini sudah diatur oleh Tuhan Yang Maha Esa.  Jika kedua insan memang ditakdirkan bersama, maka terjadilah.  Jika tidak pun terjadilah..Aku pasrah pada apapun yang akan terjadi pada hidup dan jodohku.  Jika orang yang kita cintai suatu hari nanti pergi meninggalkan kita, akan ada orang baru yang datang mengganti posisinya dalam hidupmu.  

Itulah sebabnya aku santai dalam menjalani setiap hubungan dengan pria yang aku sayangi.  Kubiarkan diriku terbawa oleh alur hidupku hari demi hari. Oya dan satu hal lagi yang kupercaya, bahwa setiap manusia itu punya hati nurani terdalam yang akan membimbingnya pada kebenaran.  Dan meski orang itu berjalan kearah yang salah, hati nuraninya yang akan menjadi alarm untuk meluruskan kesalahan.

Dan dalam hal jodoh, hati pria akan dibisikkan oleh Tuhan untuk menemukan belahan jiwanya yang sejati.  Jika bukan aku, maka suatu saat nanti dia akan pergi.  Dan jika memang pria yang kucintai saat ini kan pergi suatu hari nanti meninggalkanku, meski hati remuk redam aku akan lebih ikhlas menerimanya ketimbang aku yang harus pergi meninggalkannya.  

Cinta itu seluruh kependekan dari kebaikan. Ketika aku mencintai aku berbaik hati pada orang yang kusayangi.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Are You Who, What, Where, or Why?

You Are Why

You are a very philosophical person, and you're happiest when you're able to sit and think for long periods of time.
You're interested on everything on a deeper level, and you aren't content until you've thought about something thoroughly.

You believe that often we act too quickly without taking time to reflect. You can learn a lot if you sit with your thoughts.
People may think you're a bit slow moving, but they don't realize how quickly your mind is racing.

The Smell Test

You Are Generous and Charming

You are love to be around other people, and you especially love to entertain.
You're a bit fanciful and a dreamer. You like to add your personal touch to everything.

You are an optimist with unfussy tastes. You see beauty in the simplest things.
You are truly happy and feel blessed in your life. You enjoy what you have and you're always ready to give back a little.

Are You Dominant or a Doormat?

You Are a Delight

You are easy to get along with and easy to be with, but you're definitely not a doormat.
You'll cheerfully ask for what you want, and you're almost always ready to compromise.

You are comfortable speaking your mind, and you're also willing to admit you may not be right.
You know how to work well with others. You can bend in the wind, but you don't break.

How Feminine Are You?

You Are a Total Girlie Girl

You love looking good, and wooing men with your womanly ways.
You're so feminine, men are in awe of you ... which is a very good thing.

''Paramitha sweetheart, fear less - hope more, eat less - chew more, whine less - breathe more, talk less - say more, love more, and all good things will be yours.''

Your Love Life Secrets, Revealed

It's Rather Easy For You to Fall in Love

Looking back on your life, you will have a few true loves.

You're a little scarred from your past relationships, but who isn't?

You prefer a quirky, unique person to be your lover. You're easy going about who you're with, as long as they love you back.

In fights, you love to debate and defend yourself. You logic prevails - or at least you'd like to think so.

Break-ups can be painful for you, but you never show it. You hold your head high.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Longer Than - Dan Fogelberg (w/ lyrics)




A Beautiful song..

Longer Than


Longer than there've been fishes
in the ocean
Higher than any bird ever flew
Longer than there've been stars
up in the heavens
I've been in love with you.
~Dan Fogelberg~

Saturday, April 7, 2012

How's Your Karma?

You Have Good Karma

In general, you like to do the right thing when it comes to others.
Your caring personality really shines through.
Sure, you have your moments of weakness - and occasionally act out.
But, all in all, you're karma is good... even with those few dark spots.

What Colour Is Your Psyche

Your Psyche is Blue

You are deeply emotional and very connected to everything (and everyone) around you.
By simply understanding other people, you are able to help them heal and let go.
While you are a very deep and thoughtful person, you do have a very silly, superficial side.

When you are too blue: the weight of the world's problems hangs over you

When you don't have enough blue: you lack perspective and understanding

The Rain Test

Rain Makes You Happy

You tend to move slowly, but you still get a lot done. You are steady.

You are down to earth and practical. You like to live an ordered and organized life.

You have high expectations for your life, and you're sometimes disappointed. You wish that things were easier.

You prefer to be around a wide variety of people. You believe that you learn a little something from everyone.

You find peace when you are able to slow down. When you can just be, your life clarifies itself.

You Are a Water Charmer

You charm with a deep intuition. You seem to sense what each person wants and longs for.
You come across as coy and mysterious. Without trying to be, you are a very intriguing person.

You are emotionally in tune with everyone you meet. You rarely read people wrong.
You want to make the world a better place. You can be quite passionate about your ideals.

Are you being a source of comfort and protection for your spouse ?

As-Suddi reported from Abu saleh and Abu Malik that Ibn Abbas , Ibn Masoor and other companions (may Allah be pleased with them said :

"... Once when Adam alaihi salaam slept and then woke up , he found a woman sitting near his head , who Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala had created from his ribs . Adam asked her , ' What are you ? ' She replied , ' A woman. ' He further asked her , 'What are you created for? ' She replied , ' So you can seek comfort in me . ' ... " This woman was Hawwa (Eve )

♥ Respect Each Other's Natures ♥

In His infinite wisdom Allah subhanallah wa ta'ala created men and women with very different natures. For example, both have unique ways of handling stress.

'Generally speaking' - when a man is stressed he tends to ‘isolate’ himself to think about the problem, whilst a woman will want to ‘talk’ about it!

Communication in marriage is essential, so brothers please explain to your wife you will discuss the problem with her after you think things through, and sisters rest assured your ‘conversation’ will happen at a later time so you can share your thoughts and feelings Insha’Allah!

A Letter Of A Mum To Her Child..

Bermain Di Rumah Sosiz





Orang yang membantu janda&orang miskin ibarat orang yang berperang di jalan Allah,sholat sepanjang malam & berpuasa tiada henti (HR Bukhari)
You can not expect a #Gemini to be the same person as they are now forever. They change!

Friday, April 6, 2012

Sampan Kecilku

Sampan kecil kita telah berlubang-lubang sayang..kurasakan ini akan segera tenggelam. Biarkan ia karam, karena walau bagaimanapun aku sudah terlalu letih mendayung untuk sampai ketepian.

Aku tahu kamu tak peduli lagi pada sampan ini, dan aku tahu kau pasti akan melompat berenang meninggalkan aku tenggelam bersamanya. Di ujung sana kapal besarmu masih kokoh berlayar.

Mungkin bagimu perahu kecil ini tak ada artinya, tapi inilah yang menyelamatkanmu ketika kau terhempas jatuh ke samudera lepas dari kapal besarmu yang terombang-ambing badai dan gelombang besar.

Kau boleh kembali ke kapal besarmu sayang,  tapi kumohon..jangan pernah kau lupakan jasa perahu kecil tak berarti ini.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

If we keep a journal of our goals leading up to our change in lifestyle. When we go back and read that journal it would remind us of how hard we worked to get where we are. It makes us appreciate where we are now. ~unknown~
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Nothing is more honorable than a grateful heart.
~Senneca~
 
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Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.
~Ralph Marston
~°~ shared by Lynda~°~

Success In Life Is Not In Who You Marry..

You might be married to the worst man ever, like Pharaoh, and be one of the best women.
You might be married to the best of men, like the wife of Lut 'alaihissalaam, and not enter Heaven.
You might not be married to any man, like Maryam 'alaihassalaam, and Allah can make your rank higher than any women.  Success in life is not in who you marry.

Be Patience..

At times looking for a pious spouse can be a long process. We pray, we search, we wait and nothing happens for what might seem like eternity. This can be a time when Shaitan will try to discourage us, or even entice us to look using haram means. Brothers and sisters - don’t give up!
 
Remember that “Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow - that is patience.”
 
{O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.} [Quran 2:153]

Ikhlas

► If your conscious tells you to seek ikhlaas, then turn to greed firstly, & slaughter it with the knife of despair [1], then turn to the love of being praised and abandon it like how those who adore the life of this world abandon the hereafter.

If you are successful in slaughtering greed and in abandoning the love of being praised, then ikhlaas will be easy for you. [Ibn Al Qayyim]

Don't Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit,

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Every Woman's Heart..

How to manage your husband:

< to all my beautiful sisters out there >

When you marry a man, love him.
After you marry him, study him.
If he is honest, humour him.
If he is generous, appreciate him.
When he is sad, cheer him.
When he is quarrelsome, ignore him.
If he is noble, praise him.
If he is confidential, encourage him.
If he is secretive, trust him.
If he is jealous, cure him.
If he favours society, accompany him.
When he deserves it, kiss him
Let him think how well you understand him.
But never let him know that you manage him!!!!

HIJAB FLOWER by RIKSA FITRI


Indonesia Daily Veil #24 - Pashmina alibaba

 Belajar pake kerudung cantik seperti ini..agak ribet ya..tapi bagus kok:)


Life is like Coffee Movie

 This is so true! check this inspiring movie..:)

Life is like Coffee Movie: Do you know people that just seem to be happier in general? Do you say to yourself, "I want to be more like them"? Often, the happiest people in the world don't have the best of everything...they just make the best of everything!
I'm not waiting for a prince. I'm waiting for someone who thinks I'm his princess. ♥