Saturday, April 28, 2012

What We Can't Have Or Don't Have..

"May we never let the things we can't have, or don't have, or shouldn't have, spoil our enjoyment of the things we do have and can have. As we value our happiness, let us not forget it, for one of the greatest lessons in life is learning to be happy without the things we cannot or should not have."
Richard L. Evans

Friday, April 27, 2012

~The pious wife~

Marriage to her is one half of the deen,
The benefit Allah has put in her is yet to be seen.
She wears her hijab for her Lord, to please and obey,
She turns to Allah for salaah at least five times each day.

She prays in the night and makes sure to awake you,bea
And sprinkles you with water if sleep should overtake you.
She protects her chastity with firmness because she does not desire,
To displease Allah and end up in the tormenting fire.

She asks the people who know when matters need to be rectified,
She is not blinded by self righteousness and foolish pride.
She is humble and kind to her husband as Allah has commanded,
Never leaving him alone, isolated, nor stranded.

She opens her mouth only to say what is best,
Not questioning her husband when he makes a request.
She takes care of herself and never ceases to try,
To beautify herself so to please his eye.

She is a pleasure Allah has given to us in this life,
Be thankful to Allah alone for His blessing.

Beauty


"Beauty is before me, and beauty is behind me.
Above and below me hovers the beautiful.
I am surrounded by it. I am immersed in it.
In my youth I am aware of it,
And in old age I shall walk quietly
The beautiful trail."
-Navaho Prayer

Smoke Gets In Your Eyes

They asked me how I knew
My true love was true
Oh, I of course replied
Something here inside cannot be denied

They said someday you'll find
All who love are blind
Oh, when your heart's on fire
You must realize
Smoke gets in your eyes

So I chaffed them and I gaily laughed
To think they could doubt my love
Yet today my love has flown away
I am without my love

Now laughing friends deride
Tears I can not hide
Oh, so I smile and say
When a lovely flame dies
Smoke gets in your eyes
Smoke gets in your eyes

A Strong Woman

The believing woman is never down for long. She is like a willow under a strong wind; she will bend to breaking point but will stay whole. She’ll sail against the tides and storms, she may get bruised from life, but she’ll never give up. Because she knows Allah will not give more than she can bear, she knows her worth and even if she is walked upon or laughed at. No one can take away her dignity, as her refuge is with Allah.

When You Lose Someone You Love


When you lose someone you love,
you gain an angel that you know ~

When we lose someone we love,
We learn to trust somehow
That a new life in a brighter place
Is just beginning now..
A place of grace and peace and joy
Beyond all time and sorrow,
Where loving hearts who part today
Will meet again tomorrow.
~°~ shared by Lynda~°~

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Mengapa Wanita Enggan Jatuh Cinta

Ini alasan wanita enggan jatuh cinta..link yang bagus untuk dipikirkan..4 Penyebab Wanita Enggan Jatuh Cinta

Don't Ask

As tempting as it may be, let’s try to not ask Allah to give us a specific spouse ‘by name’. We might really like someone and imagine them to be our only Mr or Mrs Right, our Destiny.  
If it hasn’t worked out after performing Istikhara (prayer for guidance), let’s rest assured that only Allah knows what that particular person is truly like and whether they would be a ‘pure match’ for us.   
Instead let’s ask Allah to choose our spouse, to guide us to who He knows will be a good match. By truly putting our trust in our Creator we will be certain that He will give us someone better suited to us than we would have chosen ourselves, Insha’Allah!

"BEAUTIFUL STORY"

A boy said to his father: "I saw a girl and I want to marry... her. She is so beautiful and she has gorgeous eyes. The father answered his son: of course son, let’s ask for her hand in marriage."

When the father saw the girl, he admired her beauty and he told his son: "You don’t deserve this girl, she needs someone who has experience in life and she can depend on, someone like me."

The boy was surprised by the attitude of his father and he told him : "She will marry me, not you”. They started to fight and finally they decided both to go to the police station to solve their problem.

When they tell their story to the police officer, he told them:”bring the girl so we can ask her about her opinion about this. " When the officer saw the beauty of the girl he said to the boy and his father:”you both don’t deserve her, she needs someone who has prestige like me.”

The 3 men started a fight and decided to go to the minister to solve their problem. When the minister saw the girl, he said: "She deserves to be married with a minister like me”. The prince heard about their problem and call them all to help them solve it but and when he saw the girl he said : "This girl will marry me” .

All the 5 men started to fight. Finally, the girl said “I have the solution! I will start to run and whoever catches me first, he will be my husband”. When she started to run, the boy, his father, the police officer, the minister and the prince started to run to catch her. Suddenly the 5 men fell into a deep hole.

The girl looked to them from the top and she said “did you know who am I?”

I am the Dunya THE LIFE!!

People want to run to catch me, they are racing to have me. By doing that, they forget their religion, until they end up in their grave and still won’t have me.


Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Think About This..

If you are poor then someone else is heavily in debt.

If you don’t have a car then someone else doesn’t have two legs.

If you are ill, then someone else has been bedridden for years.

If you have lost a parent then someone else has lost both parents in a single accident…

Today before you say an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak,

Think of someone who has to use sign language to tell his family he loves them and they've never heard the sound of their parent's voice or the recitation of the Holy Quran!

Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

When you’re frustrated because you can not decide what food you should cook, remember that there is a mother in Somalia who can not decide which of her children she should give the little food she has while the other is left to die.

Before you complain about your husband or wife -
Think of someone who’s crying out to Allah for a companion.

Today before you complain about life – Think about someone who died today is being placed in the ground at this moment and this will be their first night in their kabr, all alone

Before you complain about your children – Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren…

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep – Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive – Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet…

And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wished they had your job..

Before you think of pointing that finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and think: You’re alive and still around and it’s never too late to make TAWBAH and turn back to Allah Subhanna Wa Ta’ala
"Oh, Allah, forgive me when I whine!"