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Saturday, April 7, 2012
Are you being a source of comfort and protection for your spouse ?
As-Suddi reported from Abu saleh and Abu Malik that Ibn
Abbas , Ibn Masoor and other companions (may Allah be pleased with them said :
"... Once when Adam alaihi salaam slept and then
woke up , he found a woman sitting near his head , who Allah subhanahu wa
ta'ala had created from his ribs . Adam asked her , ' What are you ? ' She
replied , ' A woman. ' He further asked her , 'What are you created for? ' She
replied , ' So you can seek comfort in me . ' ... " This woman was Hawwa
(Eve )
♥ Respect Each Other's Natures ♥
In His infinite wisdom Allah subhanallah wa ta'ala created men and women with very different natures. For example, both have unique ways of handling stress.
'Generally speaking' - when a man is stressed he tends to ‘isolate’ himself to think about the problem, whilst a woman will want to ‘talk’ about it!
Communication in marriage is essential, so brothers please explain to your wife you will discuss the problem with her after you think things through, and sisters rest assured your ‘conversation’ will happen at a later time so you can share your thoughts and feelings Insha’Allah!
'Generally speaking' - when a man is stressed he tends to ‘isolate’ himself to think about the problem, whilst a woman will want to ‘talk’ about it!
Communication in marriage is essential, so brothers please explain to your wife you will discuss the problem with her after you think things through, and sisters rest assured your ‘conversation’ will happen at a later time so you can share your thoughts and feelings Insha’Allah!
A Letter Of A Mum To Her Child..
Bermain Di Rumah Sosiz
Orang yang membantu janda&orang miskin ibarat orang yang berperang di jalan Allah,sholat sepanjang malam & berpuasa tiada henti (HR Bukhari)
You can not expect a #Gemini to be the same person as they are now forever. They change!
Friday, April 6, 2012
Sampan Kecilku
Sampan kecil kita telah berlubang-lubang sayang..kurasakan ini akan segera tenggelam. Biarkan ia karam, karena walau bagaimanapun aku sudah terlalu letih mendayung untuk sampai ketepian.
Aku tahu kamu tak peduli lagi pada sampan ini, dan aku tahu kau pasti akan melompat berenang meninggalkan aku tenggelam bersamanya. Di ujung sana kapal besarmu masih kokoh berlayar.
Mungkin bagimu perahu kecil ini tak ada artinya, tapi inilah yang menyelamatkanmu ketika kau terhempas jatuh ke samudera lepas dari kapal besarmu yang terombang-ambing badai dan gelombang besar.
Kau boleh kembali ke kapal besarmu sayang, tapi kumohon..jangan pernah kau lupakan jasa perahu kecil tak berarti ini.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
If we keep a journal of our goals leading up to our change in lifestyle. When we go back and read that journal it would remind us of how hard we worked to get where we are. It makes us appreciate where we are now. ~unknown~
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♥ ✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶*♥✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶♥
♥ ✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶*♥✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶♥
Nothing is more honorable than a grateful heart.
~Senneca~
♥ ✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶*♥✶*¨*. ¸ .✫*¨*.¸¸.✶♥
Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.
~Ralph Marston
~°~ shared by Lynda~°~
Success In Life Is Not In Who You Marry..
You might be married to the worst man ever, like Pharaoh, and be one of the best women.
You might be married to the best of men, like the wife of Lut 'alaihissalaam, and not enter Heaven.
You might not be married to any man, like Maryam 'alaihassalaam, and Allah can make your rank higher than any women. Success in life is not in who you marry.
Be Patience..
At times looking for a pious spouse can be a long process. We pray, we search, we wait and nothing happens for what might seem like eternity. This can be a time when Shaitan will try to discourage us, or even entice us to look using haram means. Brothers and sisters - don’t give up!
Remember that “Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow - that is patience.”
{O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.} [Quran 2:153]
Ikhlas
► If your conscious tells you to seek ikhlaas, then turn to greed firstly, & slaughter it with the knife of despair [1], then turn to the love of being praised and abandon it like how those who adore the life of this world abandon the hereafter.
If you are successful in slaughtering greed and in abandoning the love of being praised, then ikhlaas will be easy for you. [Ibn Al Qayyim]
Don't Quit
When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Every Woman's Heart..
How to manage your husband:
< to all my beautiful sisters out there >
When you marry a man, love him.
After you marry him, study him.
If he is honest, humour him.
If he is generous, appreciate him.
When he is sad, cheer him.
When he is quarrelsome, ignore him.
If he is noble, praise him.
If he is confidential, encourage him.
If he is secretive, trust him.
If he is jealous, cure him.
If he favours society, accompany him.
When he deserves it, kiss him
Let him think how well you understand him.
But never let him know that you manage him!!!!
HIJAB FLOWER by RIKSA FITRI
Indonesia Daily Veil #24 - Pashmina alibaba
Belajar pake kerudung cantik seperti ini..agak ribet ya..tapi bagus kok:)
Life is like Coffee Movie
This is so true! check this inspiring movie..:)
Life is like Coffee Movie: Do you know people that just seem to be happier in general? Do you say to yourself, "I want to be more like them"? Often, the happiest people in the world don't have the best of everything...they just make the best of everything!
Monday, April 2, 2012
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