Simply Me..

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

True Love

"True love is not how you forgive, but how you forget, not what you see but what you feel, not how you listen but how you understand, and not how you let go but how you hold on."
~ Unknown

If You Listen To The Wind

If you listen to the wind very carefully, you'll be able to hear me whisper my love for you.”
-Andrew Davidson-

True Friends

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart. ~Elisabeth Foley

Monday, May 28, 2012

Ini ada sebuah cerita singkat mengenai bertemu jodoh. Setiap orang itu punya cerita lucu yang kadang aneh jalan dia bertemu dengan jodohnya atau pasangan hidupnya. Ya kalo cerita ketemu pasangan di kampus, ditempat kerja, atau di klub dan lain sebagainya masih dibilang biasalah. Tapi bertemu jodoh di sebuah online game seperti farmville? Nah lo..lucu juga ya..

Ya ini yang terjadi dengan temanku Bloggers..Seorang teman wanita yang selama 35 tahun dia menjomblo alias single, tiba-tiba bercerita kalo dia telah menikah dengan seorang pria bule asal Amerika yang dia kenal di farmville! hehehe..Aku terkejut juga, ya sekaligus takjub kok bisa sih, kenalan di farmville hingga berujung pernikahan? Dan ternyata, sang suami itu juga seorang petani asli yang tinggal disebuah wilayah pertanian di USA sana. Hebat! dan sekarang, temanku itu benar-benar menjadi seorang petani bersama suaminya disana seperti yang selalu dia mainkan di Farmville.

Oya Bloggers tahu dong online game yang satu ini di Facebook?

Always Grateful

I cried because I had no shoes;

Until I saw a man who had no feet.

Old Persian Sufi proverb

Some faith lies in not getting what you thought you wanted, but getting what you have; which once you have got it, you might be smart enough to see it's what you would have wanted had you known.

Life is full of blessings. Always be grateful for what you have.

“We may experience some problems, but other people have worse problems than we have.”

Count your blessings everyday. Be sure to thank God for helping you in life.

Letting Go Takes Love

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.
Remember: The time to love is short.

Journey Through A New World

“Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be...Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you'll live as you've never lived before.”
Erich Fromm

Friday, May 25, 2012

No More Excuses..

No more excuses ~ If you have the tendency to do these things, then STOP DOING THEM. Stop avoiding your light, your power, your bliss, your passions, your birthright. No more letting the wounds, insecurities, doubts, fears or resistances speak for you or create for you. No more looking outside yourself for security, stability, validation and acceptance, find it first in the comfort of your own self-love and awareness ~ Turn all your attention inward, to the divine Temple that you are - call all aspects in that have strayed away and that you have decided to embody, instead of the Divine God/ess that lives inside that only knows unconditional love and forgiveness. Open the door to all the parts of you that don't feel worthy of your brilliance and power, rather than being those parts that are shut out from your God essence... Let this part of you guide the rest of all that you are and don't stop letting the Love flow... Commit to this, devote yourself, be in love with the process! We are all required to do this!!!

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Lomba Mewarnai

Hari yang ditunggu anakku tiba, lomba mewarnai sewilayah Bandung. Meski kami para orang tua murid tidak mengetahui apakah anak kami adalah pemenang lomba, tapi bagi kami mendukung antusias anak adalah hal yang menyenangkan. Biarlah hari ini menjadi hari yang fun buat mereka..

Hi Darren..jangan melamun..

Belum mulai sudah terlihat mengantuk..kasihan sekali anak-anak ini, sudah menunggu sejak pagi.

Lihat deh betapa ramainya..

Menunggu acara dimulai bersama teman-teman..sabar ya nak..

Ohh lihat tuh anakku..wajahnya serius sekali!

Hadeuh nggak dimana-mana eksis nih ibu-ibu..:)

Pretty moms hehehe..

Tadinya ingin mengabadikan pemandangan luar dengan latar belakang pegunungan, tapi sayang tertutup awan kabut tebal..

Tuh kan gunungnya tidak terlihat..entah karena tertutup kabut atau polusi udara?

If Someone Let You Down..

If someone has hurt you or let you down - don't carry the burden of their mistakes, release yourself from it and validate the fact that you may just care more about things, that others have chosen to overlook. Walk away with more self-love and appreciation, rather than carry the emotional heaviness and discomfort that some outside influence may have triggered in you. If you have given them the power to take away from you, then give yourself the power to take it back and then continue to receive the ever-abundant flow of wisdom, guidance and protection from Source Love and you will soon be drawing in and attracting experiences and people, that honor the same things as you do...

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Persiapan Lomba Anak..

Sedang bersiap untuk beristirahat lebih awal Bloggers, karena besok anakku akan mengikuti lomba mewarnai sewilayah Bandung. Dia sangat antusias mengikuti lomba tersebut sebab menurutnya bila dia bisa juara satu, dia akan mendapatkan sebuah sepeda. Duh naak..tak perlu ikutan lomba untuk mendapatkan sebuah sepeda, mamapun sanggup kok membelikan kamu itu sayang..Tapi biarlah, aku senang anakku bukan anak yang pasif. Dia anak yang memiliki semangat serta energi yang besar dalam hal belajar.

Jadi mulai sore tadi aku sudah mulai sibuk menyiapkan keperluan besok yang harus dibawa seperti bekal makan siangnya, pakaian olahraganya, susunya, dan lain-lain. Termasuk juga keperluan pribadiku yang harus kubawa seperti minuman, pakaian nyaman untuk kegiatan seharian yang panas, serta tidur lebih awal agar aku dapat bangun lebih pagi lagi. Besok pagi, persiapannya tinggal memasukkan spaghety yang kubuat malam ini ke dalam tupperware, serta menyiapkan sarapan pagi anak.

Huff tomorrow it's gonna be a hectic day. I hope everything's gonna be alright with us..Semangat!

Pelukis Kecilku..

Besok akan ada acara lomba mewarnai untuk anak-anak seBandung..Jadi anakku antusias sekali belajar melukis..

Begini nih ekspresinya pelukis kecilku..

Lihat deh paternnya..

Ini dia masterpiecenyaa..kok kaya jumputan yaa:) nggak apa..lukisan itukan seni ya harus unik dan autentik

Kenangan Sebelum Perpisahan..

Yellow day today for me..heuheuheu..take some pics first alright ladies?:)

With my favorite baby, Arrey..aren't we look cute together sweety?

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Who Are You?

You Are Kind

You are a considerate person, and people appreciate your kindness more than you'll ever know.
You watch and understand people well. You know what each person in your life really needs.

You are a natural peacemaker and a truly good friend. You bring people together.
You are patient with others and willing to give them the benefit of doubt. You get along with almost everyone.

Who Are You?

Be Grateful No Matter What..

“Sometimes in life, things happen too fast. We barely solve one problem when two new problems surface. We’re feeling great in the morning, but we’re submerged in misery by nightfall.

Every day we face interruptions, delays, changes, and challenges. We face personality conflicts and disappointments. Often when we’re feeling overwhelmed, we can’t see the lessons in these experiences.
One simple concept can get us through the most stressful of times. It’s called gratitude. We learn to say thank you for these problems and feelings. Thank you for the way things are. I don’t like this experience, but thank you anyway.

Force gratitude until it becomes habitual. Gratitude helps us stop trying to control outcomes. It is the key that unlocks positive energy in our life. It is the alchemy that turns problems into blessings, and the unexpected into gifts.

Today, I will be grateful. I will start the process of turning today’s pain into tomorrow’s joy.”

La Tahzan..

Aku tak ingin lagi bersedih..

Kesedihan membuatku rapuh, membuat daya tahan tubuhku menurun, membuat tubuhku sakit. Aku tak ingin bergantung pada siapapun kecuali Tuhan. Manusia hanya membuat kekecewaan dan luka dihati, tapi Allah tidak. Kesedihan adalah pertanda melorotnya keimanan kita. Sebagai manusia, ku akui bahwa iman kita juga sama seperti hidup, naik dan turun seperti roller coaster. Padahal seharusnya tidak boleh seperti itu. Tapi yah..namanya juga sedang tumbuh. Manusia tumbuh berkembang seiring dengan kedewasaan dan kematangan jiwa.

Terkadang cobaan datang untuk menguji keimanan kita. Bila kita sedang lemah maka iman kita juga terkadang berada pada titik terendah. Merasa putus asa, merasa down, sedih, kecewa dan sebagainya. Hingga alarm tubuh kita mulai berbunyi menandakan bahwa kita jatuh sakit. Kembali kita diingatkan untuk bertawakal, untuk bangkit dan menguatkan diri dan jiwa kita kembali agar tidak lemah. Belajar ikhlas itu sulit. Belajar memaafkan itu sulit. Belajar dewasa itu juga tidak mudah. Semuanya harus dihadapi. Ya memaafkan, ikhlas, dan menguatkan fisik dan juga mental.

Ingat Allah..jangan pernah menduakan Dia dengan yang lain. Tidak dengan kekasih, tidak dengan uang dan lain-lain. Cukup Allah saja peganganku. Aku akan hadapi segala rintangan dihadapanku dengan tegar. Sedih ya menangis..menangis itu baik buat kesehatan sama seperti tertawa. Melepaskan beban itu perlu, jadi menangislah..Jika sudah tak mampu menangislah..Tak perlu berpura-pura kuat. Tidak ada gunanya. Mari kita ambil buku diary kita, tuang semua rasamu disana. Berdoalah..Kamu tidak sendirian.

Remember that, You're not alone..

Circle Of Life

Patah tumbuh hilang berganti..

Akan ada manusia lain yang hadir jika seseorang yang berarti bagi kita pergi. Akan ada manusia lain yang akan mengasihi aku dan anakku jika kami berdua sudah ditinggalkan oleh seseorang yang seharusnya menjadi pelindung bagi kami. Just have to be patient a litle bit longer..

Seperti halnya bunga ditaman, jika bunga itu mati, akan tumbuh tunas baru yang beregenerasi. Sama halnya dengan cinta, jika sebuah cinta telah tiada, cinta yang baru akan tumbuh menggantikannya.