Friday, April 27, 2012

When You Lose Someone You Love


When you lose someone you love,
you gain an angel that you know ~

When we lose someone we love,
We learn to trust somehow
That a new life in a brighter place
Is just beginning now..
A place of grace and peace and joy
Beyond all time and sorrow,
Where loving hearts who part today
Will meet again tomorrow.
~°~ shared by Lynda~°~

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Mengapa Wanita Enggan Jatuh Cinta

Ini alasan wanita enggan jatuh cinta..link yang bagus untuk dipikirkan..4 Penyebab Wanita Enggan Jatuh Cinta

Don't Ask

As tempting as it may be, let’s try to not ask Allah to give us a specific spouse ‘by name’. We might really like someone and imagine them to be our only Mr or Mrs Right, our Destiny.  
If it hasn’t worked out after performing Istikhara (prayer for guidance), let’s rest assured that only Allah knows what that particular person is truly like and whether they would be a ‘pure match’ for us.   
Instead let’s ask Allah to choose our spouse, to guide us to who He knows will be a good match. By truly putting our trust in our Creator we will be certain that He will give us someone better suited to us than we would have chosen ourselves, Insha’Allah!

"BEAUTIFUL STORY"

A boy said to his father: "I saw a girl and I want to marry... her. She is so beautiful and she has gorgeous eyes. The father answered his son: of course son, let’s ask for her hand in marriage."

When the father saw the girl, he admired her beauty and he told his son: "You don’t deserve this girl, she needs someone who has experience in life and she can depend on, someone like me."

The boy was surprised by the attitude of his father and he told him : "She will marry me, not you”. They started to fight and finally they decided both to go to the police station to solve their problem.

When they tell their story to the police officer, he told them:”bring the girl so we can ask her about her opinion about this. " When the officer saw the beauty of the girl he said to the boy and his father:”you both don’t deserve her, she needs someone who has prestige like me.”

The 3 men started a fight and decided to go to the minister to solve their problem. When the minister saw the girl, he said: "She deserves to be married with a minister like me”. The prince heard about their problem and call them all to help them solve it but and when he saw the girl he said : "This girl will marry me” .

All the 5 men started to fight. Finally, the girl said “I have the solution! I will start to run and whoever catches me first, he will be my husband”. When she started to run, the boy, his father, the police officer, the minister and the prince started to run to catch her. Suddenly the 5 men fell into a deep hole.

The girl looked to them from the top and she said “did you know who am I?”

I am the Dunya THE LIFE!!

People want to run to catch me, they are racing to have me. By doing that, they forget their religion, until they end up in their grave and still won’t have me.


Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Think About This..

If you are poor then someone else is heavily in debt.

If you don’t have a car then someone else doesn’t have two legs.

If you are ill, then someone else has been bedridden for years.

If you have lost a parent then someone else has lost both parents in a single accident…

Today before you say an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak,

Think of someone who has to use sign language to tell his family he loves them and they've never heard the sound of their parent's voice or the recitation of the Holy Quran!

Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

When you’re frustrated because you can not decide what food you should cook, remember that there is a mother in Somalia who can not decide which of her children she should give the little food she has while the other is left to die.

Before you complain about your husband or wife -
Think of someone who’s crying out to Allah for a companion.

Today before you complain about life – Think about someone who died today is being placed in the ground at this moment and this will be their first night in their kabr, all alone

Before you complain about your children – Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren…

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep – Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive – Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet…

And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wished they had your job..

Before you think of pointing that finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and think: You’re alive and still around and it’s never too late to make TAWBAH and turn back to Allah Subhanna Wa Ta’ala
"Oh, Allah, forgive me when I whine!"

The Empowered Woman

The Empowered Woman, she moves through the world with a sense of confidence and grace. Her once reckless spirit now tempered by wisdom. Quietly, yet firmly, she speaks her truth without doubt or hesitation and the life she leads is of her own creation. She now understands what it means to live and let live. How much to ask for herself and how much to give. She has a strong, yet generous heart and the inner beauty she emanates truly sets her apart.

Like the mythical Phoenix, she has risen from the ashes and soared to a new plane of existence, unfettered by the things that once posed such resistance. Her senses now heightened, she sees everything so clearly. She hears the wind rustling through the trees; beckoning her to live the dreams she holds so dearly. She feels the softness of her hands and muses at the strength that they possess. Her needs and desires she has learned to express. She has tasted the bitter and savored the sweet fruits of life, overcome adversity and pushed past heartache and strife.

And the one thing she never understood, she now knows to be true, it all begins and ends with you.... by Sonny Carroll

Wisdom from Women... who Made Things Happen Movie

Wisdom from Women... who Made Things Happen Movie: Throughout history there have been incredible women who have lead us, inspired us and encouraged us to do the right thing. The woman in this short movie all have one thing in common; rather than taking the road well traveled... they decided to blaze their own trail!

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Love Has To Be

Love has to be just your flavor, your aroma, your fragrance.
When you pass by the side of a rosebush, the rosebush does not bother whether it likes you or not. Its fragrance is available to you as much as to anybody else. Its fragrance is available to the birds, to the animals, to the trees – and unconditionally, without any expectation in return. Its fragrance is available even when there is nobody present to enjoy it, appreciate it. It simply goes on releasing its fragrance; it is its nature.

ღOSHO

Monday, April 16, 2012

Islam: Inside The Koran (Quran) - National Geographic Channel

Each Morning..


Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.

- Groucho Marx

Do What Makes You Happy


Do what makes you happy.
Be with who makes you smile.
Laugh as much as you breathe and
love as long as you live.
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