Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Somewhere Out There..
A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Make
WHY MEN WON'T COMMIT
Are you stuck with a man who says he loves you, but won't commit to a more serious relationship? Either he's simply unwilling or unprepared to handle marriage -- or you may be doing certain things that's keeping him from committing!
Picture this -- you meet a great man who likes you too. You start going out, and it's clear to you that he sees as more than just a friend. He's very sweet, he gives you gifts, he sends you those sweet nothings over text and e-mail.
And if you're the adventurous type, you may have enjoyed some great sex, too! Then one day, you decide it's time to take things to the next level. So you talk to him and ask what he thinks about getting married and settling down.
Then, to your utter shock, he tells you: "I'm not really ready for a relationship yet." What gives? If he wasn't ready all this time, then why was he being so sweet to you? Was he just playing you for a fool? Or are all men really just after the sex?
Not many people know this, but here's the difference between us women and the men in our lives...First of all, when we're exclusively dating him, it means we love him. If we actually go all the way and have sex with him, it means we love him and we want him to be ours.
We women also tend to think that when the relationship has went on "long enough," it's actually time to get serious and settle down. But guess what? Men DON'T think the same way we do when it comes to love and relationships. They don't!
He won't commit to you simply because you're dating, or simply because you've already taken things to the bedroom, or simply because you feel the relationship has dragged on "long enough." He won't.
Here's the secret: A man will commit to you for two reasons, and two reasons ONLY:
REASON #1 - IF YOU MAKE HIS LIFE BETTER, NOT WORSE.
I once received a long, depressing e-mail from a reader. RK wrote to me about how she was in the middle of a difficult setup with the man in her life:
"I'm in love with a great man. The problem is that he seems to love his mother more. His mother is the
consummate drama queen! She rants a lot, she makes an issue out of the tiniest things, she invades my privacy, and she doesn't hesitate to pick on me.
"Alex, I can't stand her. But when I tell him anything less than positive about his mom, he gets mad at me. He'll start talking to me less, he won't ask me out as often, and he'll start feeling annoyed whenever I flirt or get touchy-feely. What should I do in this situation?" RK is obviously in trouble -- the man in
her life has clearly shown that he loves his mom more than her!
And if RK keeps trying to think of ways to get rid of her from her life, or take him all for herself, then I can tell you right now -- it's NOT going to work out. Why? Because here's reason #1 - he'll only commit to RK if she makes his life better, instead of worse.
And obviously, if she takes his mom out of the equation, it's going to make his life worse. That's the reason why he starts to dislike RK whenever she tries to complain about his mom! No, he's not going to choose between RK and his mom, and he's going to find that little gray area in the middle where he's most happy.
And if RK does force him to choose between her and his mom, he'll resent the ultimatum -- and choose his mom in retaliation. RK still loses! So what do you do if you're stuck in a similar situation?
Simple -- find ways to make both your lives better and more enjoyable at the same time! For instance, RK will need to get over her hatred of his mom, and may even need to learn to get on her good side.
If she can't do that, then she's probably better off if she stopped trying to make it work, say goodbye, and start meeting new men again.
So remember reason #1 - you have to make his life better instead of worse. Ask yourself right now -- what can you do to be a part of his life AND make it better for him at the same time? Here's reason #2:
REASON #2 - HE HAS TO FEEL TOTALLY, COMPLETELY, MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU.
It's a no-brainer, but a man must be in love with you before he can bring himself to commit to you. No, that's an understatement -- he has to feel TOTALLY, COMPLETELY, MADLY in love with you! Any woman can make his life better. But it takes a very special woman to make him fall in love!
I once had a client named "Samantha" who went to me with a problem with the man she was dating. Apparently, there were a few things in his personality that he simply couldn't stand:
"He has some 'mama's boy' traits that I find incredibly annoying," Samantha told me. "I hate it, and he knows it. In fact, his attitude is the cause of many of our arguments. "Alex, what can I do to change him? Because besides his being a mama's boy, he's a good person."
I'm going to tell you what I told Samantha that day. I told her that no matter what she did, the guy was NOT going to change. He wasn't going to change if she told him to, if she BEGGED him to, or even if she BRIBED him to. Why?
Because he's only going to change for you IF HE'S MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. A guy won't change because other people tell him to. A guy will only change IF HE WANTS TO. It's HIM who's going to decide, not you. And he's only going to change for you if he's truly, deeply in love with you! Here's the thing -- if you want him to accept you and commit to you, then be ready to do the same. You'll have to
learn to accept his quirks, no matter how annoying they may be.
(By the way, I'm not talking about ALL his quirks. If his quirks pose a threat to your life and the life of others, do this instead -- run away as far as you can from him!) If he's not willing to change for you,
then it simply means he doesn't love you enough -- a sign that it's not going to work out.
But at the same time, if you can't bring yourself to accept his flaws, then be ready to call it quits and start dating other men -- you deserve better! -Alexandra Fox-
Picture this -- you meet a great man who likes you too. You start going out, and it's clear to you that he sees as more than just a friend. He's very sweet, he gives you gifts, he sends you those sweet nothings over text and e-mail.
And if you're the adventurous type, you may have enjoyed some great sex, too! Then one day, you decide it's time to take things to the next level. So you talk to him and ask what he thinks about getting married and settling down.
Then, to your utter shock, he tells you: "I'm not really ready for a relationship yet." What gives? If he wasn't ready all this time, then why was he being so sweet to you? Was he just playing you for a fool? Or are all men really just after the sex?
Not many people know this, but here's the difference between us women and the men in our lives...First of all, when we're exclusively dating him, it means we love him. If we actually go all the way and have sex with him, it means we love him and we want him to be ours.
We women also tend to think that when the relationship has went on "long enough," it's actually time to get serious and settle down. But guess what? Men DON'T think the same way we do when it comes to love and relationships. They don't!
He won't commit to you simply because you're dating, or simply because you've already taken things to the bedroom, or simply because you feel the relationship has dragged on "long enough." He won't.
Here's the secret: A man will commit to you for two reasons, and two reasons ONLY:
REASON #1 - IF YOU MAKE HIS LIFE BETTER, NOT WORSE.
I once received a long, depressing e-mail from a reader. RK wrote to me about how she was in the middle of a difficult setup with the man in her life:
"I'm in love with a great man. The problem is that he seems to love his mother more. His mother is the
consummate drama queen! She rants a lot, she makes an issue out of the tiniest things, she invades my privacy, and she doesn't hesitate to pick on me.
"Alex, I can't stand her. But when I tell him anything less than positive about his mom, he gets mad at me. He'll start talking to me less, he won't ask me out as often, and he'll start feeling annoyed whenever I flirt or get touchy-feely. What should I do in this situation?" RK is obviously in trouble -- the man in
her life has clearly shown that he loves his mom more than her!
And if RK keeps trying to think of ways to get rid of her from her life, or take him all for herself, then I can tell you right now -- it's NOT going to work out. Why? Because here's reason #1 - he'll only commit to RK if she makes his life better, instead of worse.
And obviously, if she takes his mom out of the equation, it's going to make his life worse. That's the reason why he starts to dislike RK whenever she tries to complain about his mom! No, he's not going to choose between RK and his mom, and he's going to find that little gray area in the middle where he's most happy.
And if RK does force him to choose between her and his mom, he'll resent the ultimatum -- and choose his mom in retaliation. RK still loses! So what do you do if you're stuck in a similar situation?
Simple -- find ways to make both your lives better and more enjoyable at the same time! For instance, RK will need to get over her hatred of his mom, and may even need to learn to get on her good side.
If she can't do that, then she's probably better off if she stopped trying to make it work, say goodbye, and start meeting new men again.
So remember reason #1 - you have to make his life better instead of worse. Ask yourself right now -- what can you do to be a part of his life AND make it better for him at the same time? Here's reason #2:
REASON #2 - HE HAS TO FEEL TOTALLY, COMPLETELY, MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU.
It's a no-brainer, but a man must be in love with you before he can bring himself to commit to you. No, that's an understatement -- he has to feel TOTALLY, COMPLETELY, MADLY in love with you! Any woman can make his life better. But it takes a very special woman to make him fall in love!
I once had a client named "Samantha" who went to me with a problem with the man she was dating. Apparently, there were a few things in his personality that he simply couldn't stand:
"He has some 'mama's boy' traits that I find incredibly annoying," Samantha told me. "I hate it, and he knows it. In fact, his attitude is the cause of many of our arguments. "Alex, what can I do to change him? Because besides his being a mama's boy, he's a good person."
I'm going to tell you what I told Samantha that day. I told her that no matter what she did, the guy was NOT going to change. He wasn't going to change if she told him to, if she BEGGED him to, or even if she BRIBED him to. Why?
Because he's only going to change for you IF HE'S MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. A guy won't change because other people tell him to. A guy will only change IF HE WANTS TO. It's HIM who's going to decide, not you. And he's only going to change for you if he's truly, deeply in love with you! Here's the thing -- if you want him to accept you and commit to you, then be ready to do the same. You'll have to
learn to accept his quirks, no matter how annoying they may be.
(By the way, I'm not talking about ALL his quirks. If his quirks pose a threat to your life and the life of others, do this instead -- run away as far as you can from him!) If he's not willing to change for you,
then it simply means he doesn't love you enough -- a sign that it's not going to work out.
But at the same time, if you can't bring yourself to accept his flaws, then be ready to call it quits and start dating other men -- you deserve better! -Alexandra Fox-
Creamy Chicken and Corn Potpie
Ingredients
• 1 rotisserie chicken (2 to 2 1/2 pounds), meat shredded
• 2 14.5-ounce cans corn chowder
• 1 cup frozen peas
• 1 cup frozen corn kernels
• 2 teaspoons fresh thyme leaves
• kosher salt and black pepper
• 1 sheet frozen puff pastry (from a 17.3-ounce package), thawed
Directions
1. Heat oven to 400° F. In a large bowl, combine the chicken, corn chowder, peas, corn, thyme, and ¼ teaspoon each salt and pepper.
2. Transfer the mixture to a shallow 2-quart (or 8-inch square) baking dish.
3. Lay the pastry on top of the dish, trim to fit, and cut vents in the top.
4. Bake until the chicken mixture is bubbling and the pastry is golden brown, 25 to 30 minutes.
By Kate Merker, April 2010
• 1 rotisserie chicken (2 to 2 1/2 pounds), meat shredded
• 2 14.5-ounce cans corn chowder
• 1 cup frozen peas
• 1 cup frozen corn kernels
• 2 teaspoons fresh thyme leaves
• kosher salt and black pepper
• 1 sheet frozen puff pastry (from a 17.3-ounce package), thawed
Directions
1. Heat oven to 400° F. In a large bowl, combine the chicken, corn chowder, peas, corn, thyme, and ¼ teaspoon each salt and pepper.
2. Transfer the mixture to a shallow 2-quart (or 8-inch square) baking dish.
3. Lay the pastry on top of the dish, trim to fit, and cut vents in the top.
4. Bake until the chicken mixture is bubbling and the pastry is golden brown, 25 to 30 minutes.
By Kate Merker, April 2010
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Snow White Someday..
Someday..my prince will come..
Some day my prince will come
Some day we'll meet again
And away to his castle we'll go
To be happy forever I know
Some day when spring is here
We'll find our love anew
And the birds will sing
And wedding bells will ring
Some day when my dreams come true
Some day we'll meet again
And away to his castle we'll go
To be happy forever I know
Some day when spring is here
We'll find our love anew
And the birds will sing
And wedding bells will ring
Some day when my dreams come true
The Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Make
Sumber inspirasiku..
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you will lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you will lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true
Sleeping Beauty
Every little girl always dream to become a princess
I know you
I walked with you once upon a dream.
I know you
The gleam in your eyes is so familiar a gleam
Yes, I know it's true
that visions are seldom all they seem
But if I know you, I know what you'll do
You'll love me at once
the way you did once upon a dream
Dreams..
If there is someone who ask me about my dreams, it took some moment to think about..But let's see what do I want:
1. Ingin pergi haji..aku ingin sekali pergi haji dan menuntaskan ke-5 kewajibanku sebagai muslim.
2. Ingin di ajak berwisata keliling dunia bersama kekasih tercinta.
3. Being proposed di menara Eiffel huhuhu..
4. Memperluas bidang usaha sendiri. Ingin menjadi seorang bos..
5. Untuk memiliki sebuah keluarga yang sakina, mawada, warahma. Amin..Aku rasa tujuan hidup seorang wanita yaa hanya ini.
6. Ingin memiliki sebuah kebahagiaan yang penuh..Aku berharap mendapatkan semua hal yang kuinginkan meskipun tidak semuanya sempurna, tapi setidaknya tidak ada lagi kekosongan hati. Itu cita-cita tertinggi ku.
Mmh..Apalagi ya? Dulu aku pernah mempunyai sebuah impian untuk sekolah lagi dan mengambil jurusan design interior, tapi sekarang usiaku sudah tidak mungkin lagi untuk kembali ke sekolah Jadi cita-cita ku yang satu ini boleh dilewatkan saja. Well..who knows God will notice them. My deepest longing to have dreams come true. Just a simple life and a simple dreams. Amin.
Monday, March 28, 2011
And I Love You So..
Untuk sayangku, I miss you so much..
My Dream Fairytale House
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Empat Prinsip Zen Untuk Menjerat Pria Pilihan
Ada banyak tekhnik mendapatkan pria pilihan. Ingin tau seperti apa prinsip Zen mengajarkan cara menjerat sang Mr.Right?
Untuk meraih cinta yang anda dambakan, prinsip Zen menyarankan anda untuk membuka hati, menjernihkan pikiran, dan menjadi diri anda yang sesungguhnya. Sesudah bosan menjadi lajang dan terus-terusan dihantam badai asmara? Coba belajar enam latihan ini:
1. Tengok Si Pria Yang Ada di Sisi Anda
Tak ada yang menyalahkan jika anda mencari cinta ke segala penjuru mata angin. Menurut Zen, ada baiknya anda berhenti berlari kesana kemari (hanya buang energi saja!) dan lihat siapa yang ada di depan anda.
Untuk meraih cinta yang anda dambakan, prinsip Zen menyarankan anda untuk membuka hati, menjernihkan pikiran, dan menjadi diri anda yang sesungguhnya. Sesudah bosan menjadi lajang dan terus-terusan dihantam badai asmara? Coba belajar enam latihan ini:
1. Tengok Si Pria Yang Ada di Sisi Anda
Tak ada yang menyalahkan jika anda mencari cinta ke segala penjuru mata angin. Menurut Zen, ada baiknya anda berhenti berlari kesana kemari (hanya buang energi saja!) dan lihat siapa yang ada di depan anda.
Luangkan waktu browsing semua daftar pria teman anda. Apakah itu hanya teman biasa atau daftar pacar potensial (you never know!), perhatikan kenapa selama ini anda tak pernah memikirkan kemungkinan yang bisa terjadi dan prospeknya dalam hidup anda. Intinya, jika anda mampu beradaptasi dengan berbagai macam tipe atau karakter pria, kesempatan untuk mendapatkan pria idaman pun makin terbuka lebar.
2. Jangan Bermain-main dengan Cinta
Banyak wanita lajang yang mengeluh merasa tak dicintai. Apa penyebabnya? Kemungkinannya, sebetulnya mereka terlalu sibuk bermain-main dalam permainan asmara, sehingga pasangan potensial tak punya kesempatan untuk mengenal secara lebih dekat.
Coba tanyakan pada diri anda sendiri: peran apa yang ingin anda mainkan dalam hubungan cinta? lalu, peran apa yang anda harapkan dari pasangan? Saat tak yakin dengan peran yang dimainkan, ada baiknya ganti perspektif.
2. Jangan Bermain-main dengan Cinta
Banyak wanita lajang yang mengeluh merasa tak dicintai. Apa penyebabnya? Kemungkinannya, sebetulnya mereka terlalu sibuk bermain-main dalam permainan asmara, sehingga pasangan potensial tak punya kesempatan untuk mengenal secara lebih dekat.
Coba tanyakan pada diri anda sendiri: peran apa yang ingin anda mainkan dalam hubungan cinta? lalu, peran apa yang anda harapkan dari pasangan? Saat tak yakin dengan peran yang dimainkan, ada baiknya ganti perspektif.
Tujuannya, agar bisa mengerti perbedaan antara diri anda yang sebenarnya dengan peran yang anda mainkan. Akhirnya, anda akan mampu melepaskan "peran bayangan" itu dan menjadi diri sendiri!
3. Biarkan Pasangan datang dan Pergi
Biarpun anda tahu kalau pria itu sebenarnya tak cocok, ada kalanya anda tetap mempertahankannya untuk suatu alasan yang tak jelas. Menurut prinsip Zen, jangan biarkan kepergiannya membuat trauma atau anda merasa hal itu sebagai penolakan.
3. Biarkan Pasangan datang dan Pergi
Biarpun anda tahu kalau pria itu sebenarnya tak cocok, ada kalanya anda tetap mempertahankannya untuk suatu alasan yang tak jelas. Menurut prinsip Zen, jangan biarkan kepergiannya membuat trauma atau anda merasa hal itu sebagai penolakan.
Ingat, kepergiannya sama sekali tidak ada hubungannya dengan diri anda. Sebaliknya, saat seseorang datang ke dalam hidup anda, sambut dia, siapapun orangnya. Nikmati apa yang diberikannya kepada anda.
4. Harapan dan Kenyataan
Apa jadinya kalau cita-cita ideal anda tidak sesuai dengan realita? Ayo, coba buat daftar "standar cinta" menurut anda, dan juga realita yang terjadi. Sadarilah kalau tuntutan sering membuat anda jadi "menutup hati".
Menurut prinsip Zen, bebaskan diri dari beban ini. Misalnya saja, anda selalu ingin punya pasangan yang berfisik rupawan. Perhatikan perasaan anda saat jalan dengan seorang pria yang tak tampan (tapi pintar, humoris, dan sangat gentleman). Anda akan sadar kriteria wajib yang tadinya dirasa sangat penting itu justru masalah yang membuat anda susah mendapatkan pria idaman.
4. Harapan dan Kenyataan
Apa jadinya kalau cita-cita ideal anda tidak sesuai dengan realita? Ayo, coba buat daftar "standar cinta" menurut anda, dan juga realita yang terjadi. Sadarilah kalau tuntutan sering membuat anda jadi "menutup hati".
Menurut prinsip Zen, bebaskan diri dari beban ini. Misalnya saja, anda selalu ingin punya pasangan yang berfisik rupawan. Perhatikan perasaan anda saat jalan dengan seorang pria yang tak tampan (tapi pintar, humoris, dan sangat gentleman). Anda akan sadar kriteria wajib yang tadinya dirasa sangat penting itu justru masalah yang membuat anda susah mendapatkan pria idaman.
Keterbukaan pikiran dan hati akan membuka jalan untuk orang baru, kemungkinan, dan situasi baru!
Sifat Cewek Gemini
Artikel ini 100% ciriku banget sebagai wanita berzodiak Gemini. Yang paling tidak enak menjadi seorang gemini adalah pada kalimat bahwa kisah cintanya selalu berantakan huhuhu..abis bagaimana donk?
Cewek Zodiak Gemini biasanya berpenampilan menarik, dengan kepandaian hebat, wanita yang sangat menarik. Ia bergerak cepat dan ia tidak dapat duduk atau berdiri diam dalam jangka waktu lama. Ia mampu melakukan banyak hal dan melakukannya secepat mungkin. Jika anda berkencan dengannya, mungkin anda akan merasa sedang berkencan dengan banyak wanita pada saat yang bersamaan. Anda tidak akan dapat mengikatnya dengan kata "Cinta", karena ia peduli dengan cinta, tetapi hal itu bukanlah faktor utama dalam kehidupannya. Anda harus dapat menyesuaikan diri denganya supaya anda dapat mengenal banyak karakter yang dimilikinya. Ia adalah wanita pemimpi yang memiliki banyak impian. Cewek gemini selalu ingin belajar mengenai sesuatu yang baru setiap saat.
Walaupun dia memiliki karakter 2 in 1, ia cukup beruntung dalam hal cinta. Untuk mengejarnya, anda harus mengerahkan semua kemampuan anda. Bahkan ketika dia sudah menyukai anda dan terpesona oleh kemampuan anda, ia juga akan melihat dan menyelidiki sisi buruk anda, karena hal ini adalah sifat alaminya.
Cewek gemini mampu menangani semua macam emosi yang campur aduk tanpa harus mengganggu atau memperlihatkannya kepada anda. Ia dapat membuat anda gembira dengan bersikap layaknya seekor burung kecil. Perbincangan dengannya tidak akan membosankan anda. Ia mampu berbicara dengan anda mengenai topik apapun.
Dia akan mampu membuat anda merasa menjadi cowok paling beruntung di dunia. Dia mampu membuat anda merasa bahwa ia membutuhkan semua perhatian anda, tetapi begitu dia ingin sendirian, dia mampu berdiri teguh dan tenang. Ia dapat menjadi teman baik anda dan berbicara kepadanya mengenai apapun.
Cewek gemini dapat mengikuti semua aktifitas anda dengan energi yang sama seperti yang anda punya. Ia adalah orang dengan pemikiran dan kemampuan belajar yang cepat. Ia dapat melihat arah proyek anda dan dia dapat memberi nasihat yang sangat baik. Jika dia berpikir bahwa anda tidak menginginkan dirinya hanya untuk anda, maka ia hanya akan bertindak layaknya teman baik anda saja, seorang wanita yang "cool".
Cewek gemini dapat dengan mudah membuat seorang pria jatuh cinta kepadanya. Moodnya yang selalu berubah adalah "pesona" bagi banyak pria. Ia dapat saja tertawa terbahak-bahak selama 2 menit dan kemudian terdiam membisu. Ia ingin hanya menemukan 1 cinta sejati saja, dan ia ingin menemui pria idamannya. Ia berharap banyak, bahkan terkadang terlalu banyak.
Cewek gemini selalu menunggu kedatangan seorang "kesatria tampan" bahkan pada saat ia telah memiliki seorang pacar. Ia bisa saja jatuh cinta atau menyukai orang lain pada saat bersama dengan anda. Jika anda putus dengannya, ia tidak akan lupa dalam jangka waktu pendek, karena perubahan adalah sifat alaminya.
Cewek gemini lebih banyak menyakiti hati pria daripada wanita zodiak lainnya. Karena dia seorang pemimpi dan selalu menunggu kedatangan kesatria tampannya, maka kehidupan cintanya benar- benar rumit atau bahkan berantakan. Ia tidak pernah suka menulis surat panjang lebar, jadi jika anda menulis surat, dan ingin mendapat jawaban secepatnya dari dia, jangan pernah berharap banyak.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Mengapa Kita Cenderung Cuek Terhadap Orang Yang Kita Sayangi?
Ini nih sebuah tulisan mengenai mengapa kita selalu cuek terhadap orang yang kita kasihi. Menurutku mengapa kita cuek terhadap orang yang kita sayangi adalah karena mereka sudah menjadi bagian dari hidup kita. Kita selalu taken for granted terhadap orang-orang yang kita cintai dan menganggap mereka sudah mengenal bagaimana karakter kita luar dan dalam. Sehingga kita menganggap orang yang kita cintai tahu meskipun kita cuek tidak mengurangi kadar rasa cinta kita ke dia dan berharap mereka mengerti mengenai perasaan kita. Walaupun sebenarnya sifat seperti ini tidak baik. Tapi, bagaimana ya..memang seperti itulah sebuah hubungan. Orang yang kita cintai adalah bagian dari kehidupan kita sama seperti keluarga sendiri.
Meskipun sikap ini kadang sangat menjengkelkan pihak orang terkasih, tapi jika mau saling berkomunikasi, ya semuanya bisa diatasi. Permasalahannya adalah salah satu pihak biasanya enggan "mengorek" apa yang menyebabkan pasangannya cuek. Seharusnya jika salah satu pihak ada yang tiba-tiba moody atau cuek, pasangannya atau orang terdekatnya punya perasaan emphaty padanya. Mau mencari tahu apa alasannya dia cuek atau berdiam diri. Bukannya dianggap angin lalu saja, justru jika dibiarkan mengambang kemarahan orang tersebut semakin besar. Padahal mungkin sikap cueknya itu adalah ekspresi dari rasa kesalnya pada kita orang terdekatnya.
Jadi untuk pihak-pihak yang sedang merasa di"cuekin" sama pasangannya, coba deh berani bertanya padanya dengan penuh perhatian apa yang sedang dia rasakan. Nanti dia akan cerita sendiri apa permasalahannya, dan selesaikan permasalahan tersebut dengan saling pengertian. Jangan cuek dibalas dengan cuek, yang ada malah hubungan jadi berbahaya. Mengapa Kita Cenderung Cuek Terhadap Orang Yang Kita Sayangi
Engkau Masih Tetap Lebih Baik Dari Sekian Juta Wanita
Perhatikan dan renungkan apa yang terjadi di sekitarmu. Bukankah di rumah-rumah sakit masih terdapat sekian ranjang putih yang diatasnya terbaring ribuan manusia yang menderita penyakit kronis dan cacat selama bertahun-tahun? Bukankah di sekitarmu masih banyak fakir miskin yang tinggal di gubuk-gubuk kardus dan kesulitan hanya untuk mendapatkan sepotong roti saja? Bukankah diluar sana masih ada sekian banyak wanita yang harus kehilangan anak-anaknya karena sebuah musibah yang mendera? Bukankah ada diantara mereka yang terkena penyakit kanker yang ganas dan mematikan itu?
Lalu lihatlah dirimu, engkau masih dalam keadaan sehat sejahtera, aman, tentram dan damai. Oleh karena itu, bersyukurlah kepada Allah atas segala nikmat-Nya. Janganlah menghabiskan waktumu untuk hal-hal yang tidak diridhai oleh-Nya.
Tetap Semangat!
Gundah gulana..rasanya seperti berada di dalam sumur. Sepi, gelap dan merasa tak berarti. Ingin berteriak minta tolong tapi tak seorang pun mengerti dan mendengarnya. Aku bertanya padaNya kapankah Ia mengirimkan cahaya itu untukku. Kapan Ia mengulurkan taliNya agar aku bisa keluar dari lubang gelap dan dingin ini?
Aku merasa sendiri..mataku lelah menangis, hatiku sakit dan lelah. Walaupun aku tahu, penderitaan ini hanya sementara saja. Meski kaki terseok, badan terluka dengan guratan-guratan penderitaan, pakaian compang camping dan perut lapar aku tetap harus bertahan. Terus berjalan di tengah matahari yang menyengat, dan hujan yang mengguyur tubuh. Terus berjalan melihat semuanya, menghirup udara yang masih tersedia, dengan segala keterbatasanku aku harus terus berjalan. Berjalan..berjalan..jika aku lelah aku akan berhenti sebentar untuk menangis, mencari setetes embun untuk diminum, memakan daun untuk tetap hidup. Tetap bertahan ditengah rasa sakit. You can do it !
Friday, March 25, 2011
Between The Sheets by Fourplay
lagu ini sexy banget..
The Closer I Get To You by Fourplay
The closer I get to you
The more you'll make me see
By giving me all you've got
Your love has captured me
Over and over again
I try to tell myself that we
Could never be more than friends
And all the while inside
I knew it was real
The way you make me feel
Lying here next to you
Time just seems to fly
Needing you more and more
Let's give love a try
Sweeter than sweeter love grows
And heaven's there for those
Who fool the tricks of time
With the hearts in love they find
True love
In a special way
The closer I get to you
The more you make me see
By giving me all you've got
Your love has captured me
Over and over again
I try to tell myself that we
Could never be more than friends
And all the while inside
I knew it was real
The way you make me feel
The closer I get to you
The more you make me see
By giving you all I've got
Your love has captured me
The closer I get to you
A feeling comes over me
(Me too)
The more you'll make me see
By giving me all you've got
Your love has captured me
Over and over again
I try to tell myself that we
Could never be more than friends
And all the while inside
I knew it was real
The way you make me feel
Lying here next to you
Time just seems to fly
Needing you more and more
Let's give love a try
Sweeter than sweeter love grows
And heaven's there for those
Who fool the tricks of time
With the hearts in love they find
True love
In a special way
The closer I get to you
The more you make me see
By giving me all you've got
Your love has captured me
Over and over again
I try to tell myself that we
Could never be more than friends
And all the while inside
I knew it was real
The way you make me feel
The closer I get to you
The more you make me see
By giving you all I've got
Your love has captured me
The closer I get to you
A feeling comes over me
(Me too)
I may be strong, and able to carry myself through situations. But really, I just want to be held and told everything will be ok. It's the tears that won't stop.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Iklan Lucu Lifebuoy
Ada iklan lucu yang selalu membuatku tertawa jika melihatnya yaitu iklan lifebuoy ajang pencari bakat. Pada episode paling awal, bercerita tentang seorang ibu-ibu yang sedang berbelanja di sebuah pasar dan ingin membeli bawang merah dan bawang putih. Si ibu bertanya kepada penjualnya, "berapakah harga bawang merah ini bang?" si abang menjawabnya dengan, "26 ribu bu.." kemudian si ibu bertanya lagi, "kalau harga bawang putih berapa?" si abang menjawabnya, "24 ribu bu". Tiba-tiba si ibu berteriak sementara si abangnya terkejut hingga rumput yang sedang ia gigiti jatuh..hahaha.."apa!!, mentang-mentang bawang putih baik dan bawang merah jahat harganya lebih murah?!" "selamat tinggal bang!" Si ibu-ibu itu sambil mengibaskan rambutnya dan pergi meninggalkan si penjual yang terbengong-bengong melihat acting si ibu tadi hehehe..lucuuu..aku sukaa.
Angel's Lullaby by Richard Marx
You're Always On My Mind by Michael Bubble
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Love Variable Profile
Your Five Variable Love Profile |
Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is high. You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person. And in return, you expect the same from who you love. Any sign of straying, and you'll end things. Experience Level: Your experience level is medium. You probably have had a couple significant loves. And you may have even had your heart broken. But you haven't really dated a wide variety of people. Dominance: Your dominance is low. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, just balanced. You know a relationship is not about getting your way. And you love to give your sweetie a lot of freedom. Cynicism: Your cynicism is low. You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance. No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter. You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate. And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon. Independence: Your independence is low. This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships. It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life. In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together. |
When You Love Someone
Yup Classy Woman
You Are More Like Audrey Hepburn |
You are classy, stylish, and charming. You are the true definition of grace. Some people may think you're a pushover, but they have no idea how tough you can be. You tend to draw people in with your mind. You are an intelligent and witty flirt. You are effortlessly gorgeous and naturally appealing. No one would accuse you of trying too hard. |
Love is Admiration
You Believe that Love is Admiration |
When you think of love, you think of being with the person you cherish the most. In love, you see things as they are. You accept and love your partner's faults. If you are in love, you want the whole world to know it. You don't hold back with letting people know. You are somewhat patient in love. You can wait for the right person, but once you have found the right one, you're very impatient. |
Blue Eyes Blue by Eric Clapton
I thought that you would be loving me.
I thought that you were the one who'd stay
forever.
But now, forever's come and gone
And I'm still here alone.
You were only plying.
You were only playing with my heart.
I was never waiting.
I was never waiting for the tears to start.
[chorus]
It was you who put the clouds around me.
It was you who made the tears fall down.
It was you who broke my heart in pieces.
It was you who made my blue eyes blue.
Who Oh - Never should have trusted you.
I thought that I'd be all you need.
In your eyes, I thought I saw my heaven.
And now my heaven's gone away
And I'm out in the cold.
You had me believing.
You had me believing in a lie.
Guess I couldn't see it.
Guess I couldn't see it 'till I saw goodbye.
[chorus]
I thought that you were the one who'd stay
forever.
But now, forever's come and gone
And I'm still here alone.
You were only plying.
You were only playing with my heart.
I was never waiting.
I was never waiting for the tears to start.
[chorus]
It was you who put the clouds around me.
It was you who made the tears fall down.
It was you who broke my heart in pieces.
It was you who made my blue eyes blue.
Who Oh - Never should have trusted you.
I thought that I'd be all you need.
In your eyes, I thought I saw my heaven.
And now my heaven's gone away
And I'm out in the cold.
You had me believing.
You had me believing in a lie.
Guess I couldn't see it.
Guess I couldn't see it 'till I saw goodbye.
[chorus]
Mimpi Digigit Ular Maknanya
Aku mendapatkan sebuah pengetahuan baru mengenai arti dibalik mimpi ular..Beberapa waktu lalu aku pernah menulis disini mengenai berapa kali aku bermimpi mengenai ular yang kata orang mau ketemu jodoh. Haa..sekarang setelah berkali-kali mimpi dan dihubungkan dengan dunia nyata kejadian sehari-hariku, justru malah sebaliknya. Arti dibalik mimpi ular itu sebenarnya adalah akan adanya sebuah masalah yang berkaitan dengan orang yang kita cintai yang bisa berakhir dengan putus hubungan. Inilah kesimpulanku.
Terakhir aku mimpi melihat ular kobra berwarna hitam besar berdiri sambil menantang dihadapanku, dan biasanya didalam mimpi reaksiku adalah ketakukan. Tapi kali ini, justru aku berhasil menangkap kepala ular itu dan mencubitnya dengan keras. Aku perhatikan ternyata ular tersebut memiliki empat kaki kecil. Di dalam mimpi itu aku merasakan sebuah kemenangan, karena berhasil membuat ular tersebut tidak berdaya.
Ternyata setelah dilihat-lihat hubungannya dengan dunia nyataku, kejadiannya adalah sebuah hal yang mengecewakan terjadi di dalam hubunganku dengan seseorang. Jadi bloggers, kalau Anda mimpi digigit ular dan sebagainya jangan percaya dulu jika itu berarti Anda akan menemukan jodoh. Karena bisa jadi yang terjadi justru sebaliknya. Coba deh benar tidak ya kesimpulanku? Ya mungkin masing-masing orang kan pengalaman hidupnya berbeda-beda, jadi siapa tahu memang mau menikah kalau mimpi digigit ular.
I'm Rational
You Are Rational |
You are a very meticulous and organized person. You strive toward minimalism as much as possible. You are both fussy and discriminating. You find yourself attracted to the simpler choice. You are a very wholesome person. You have your own set of ethics, and morality matters to you. Well put-together and elegant, you sometimes seem standoffish. You aren't a snob, but you do have high standards for yourself. |
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Round Diamond
Your Dream Engagement Ring Has a Round Diamond |
A round diamond is classic and timeless, just like your style Your diamond will always look with the times - and goes with everything Of all diamonds, round diamonds show the most sparkle They are often chosen by sweet, dependable women who make marriage their #1 priority. |
There'll Be Sad Song To Make You Cry by Billy Ocean
A Book
You Are a Book |
You are a very intellectual and logical person. You like to think, and a lot of your thinking is quite deep. You are both philosophical and idealistic. You think it's interesting to imagine how the world could be. You enjoy spending a good deal of time alone. In fact, you tend to go sort of crazy if you don't get your space. While you may seem distant, you care very deeply for humanity. You're trying to figure out how to save the world. |
Do You Dream Of Me by Michael W. Smith
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Comes At The Right Times
Sekarang aku percaya bahwa jodoh itu datang disaat yang tepat. Coba deh kita analisa dari pengalaman-pengalaman orang banyak atau tidak perlu jauh-jauh dari pengalaman diriku sendiri saja dulu. Aku menikah di usia yang masih relatif muda 27 tahun, pada usia tersebut orang cenderung masih berpikir idealis. Dalam memandang kehidupan kita cenderung terdorong oleh ide-ide ideal dan rasa percaya diri kita yang angkuh. Merasa kita sudah dewasa dan tahu mana yang baik dan mana yang buruk. Pada saat itu, kita merasa bahwa kita selalu merasa benar dengan segala keputusan yang diambil. Kita selalu berpikir untuk masa kini saja, dan berusaha memenuhi kebutuhan-kebutuhan yang belum kita capai, atau goal oriented. Kita juga selalu membanding-bandingkan diri dengan orang lain seperti misalnya, oh temanku si ani sudah menikah, wah si tina juga sudah bertunangan, akhirnya kita merasa menderita sendiri. Saking desperatenya siapa pun yang mendekat kepada kita berharap bahwa dia mencintai kita dengan tulus dan mau menikah dengan kita. Ok..finally, there's a guy approaching you. Dia terlihat baik dan manis, setiap hari menelpon menanyakan kabar, dia peduli pada kita, dia bilang dia mencintai kita dan sebagainya, yang kita kira memang beneran cinta. Sampai akhirnya dia melamar kita. Horee..akhirnya jadi juga aku menikah..begitulah pikiran kita. Padahal yang sebenarnya terjadi adalah too desperate can kill your chance to know the person who is with you. Hanya pacaran selama enam bulan dan karena terlalu percaya bahwa semua yang dia lakukan adalah cinta kasih yang tulus, begitu dilamar kamu menerimanya. Dan setelah menikah..bam! everything about him revealed..Ternyata dia tidak begitu mencintai kita, dia berselingkuh dan akhirnya pergi meninggalkan kita yang shock tidak mengerti apa yang sebenarnya terjadi. That's the end of our story. Akhir dari cerita yang bisa disimpulkan adalah dia bukan jodoh kita.
Begitu kita semakin dewasa, dan ketika emosi seseorang sudah mulai stabil, pengalaman hidup semakin membuat seseorang sadar akan berbagai banyak hal. Baru kemudian kita membuka mata bahwa hidup itu is not that simple. Akhirnya orang-orang baru menyadari serta mulai mencari jati diri yang sebenarnya dan belajar lebih mendalam mengenai apa arti cinta yang sesungguhnya. Disaat hati sudah mulai tenang, dan jiwa tak lagi merasa gelisah..tiba-tiba kita menemukan seseorang yang sangat pas. Di usia yang juga pas..ketika seseorang telah dewasa, telah benar-benar dewasa, tahu akan kebutuhan-kebutuhan dan keinginan-keinginan kita. Disaat seseorang telah benar-benar memiliki rasa percaya diri yang tinggi dan tahu persis siapa dirinya, disaat inilah biasanya seseorang menemukan pasangan jiwanya. Dimana dia benar-benar merasa nyaman, merasa dicintai tanpa takut dinilai, punya bahasa tubuh dan jiwa yang sama, dan lain-lain.
True love or soulmate comes in a right time. Di waktu yang pas..maksudnya adalah di saat kamu sudah menemukan ketenangan pada dirimu sendiri, disaat pasanganmu juga sudah siap secara emosional, dan materi. He wants you and You want him let's get married..hehehe..seperti itu ceritanya. Jika sebuah pernikahan tiba-tiba menjadi seperti neraka, aku percaya itu berarti sesuatu yang salah sedang terjadi. Aku percaya sekali hal itu. Karena jika dua orang memang menikah karena dilandasi cinta yang mendalam, ingat..cinta yang mendalam, bukan nafsu, bagaimanapun riak dan gelombang yang menghadang mereka bisa mengatasinya karena mereka percaya they are meant to be. Tidak akan ada kemarahan-kemarahan atau hal-hal yang mengecewakan bisa memisahkan dua orang yang saling mengasihi dan menghormati.
Tapi kalau menikah karena didorong oleh ide-ide idealis kita, atau mungkin hal lain, aku percaya disaster pasti terjadi. Makanya seharusnya jangan terlalu cepat mengambil keputusan untuk menikah jika memang belum yakin siapa pasangan kita. Menikah terlalu muda juga ternyata belum tentu menjamin kita bahagia selamanya.
Friday, March 18, 2011
Love Is Stronger Than Pride by Sade
No Ordinary Love by Sade
Aku sukaaa banget klip ini..spt di dalam laut beneran!
4 Seasons Of Loneliness by Boyz II Men
I long for the warmth of days gone by
When you were mine
But now those days are memories in time
Life's empty without you by my side
My heart belongs to you
No matter what I try
When I get the courage up to love somebody new
It always falls apart 'cause they just can't compare to you
Your love won't release me I'm bound under ball and chain
Reminiscing our love as I watch four seasons change
Chorus
In comes the winter breeze that chills the air and drifts the snow
And I imagine kissing you under the mistletoe
When springtime makes its way here
Lilac blooms reminds me of the scent of your perfume
When summer burns with heat I always get the hots for you
Go skinny dipping in the ocean where we used to do
When autumn sheds the leaves the trees are bare
When you're not here it doesn't feel the same
Remember the nights when we closed our eyes
And vowed that you and I would be in love for all time
Anytime I think about these things I shared with you
I breakdown and cry 'cause I get so emotional
Until you release me I'm bound under ball and chain
Reminiscing our love as I watch four seasons change
Chorus
This loneliness has crushed my heart
Please let me love again
'Cause I need your love to comfort me and ease my pain
Or four seasons will bring the loneliness again
Chorus
Remember the warmth of days gone by...
When you were mine
But now those days are memories in time
Life's empty without you by my side
My heart belongs to you
No matter what I try
When I get the courage up to love somebody new
It always falls apart 'cause they just can't compare to you
Your love won't release me I'm bound under ball and chain
Reminiscing our love as I watch four seasons change
Chorus
In comes the winter breeze that chills the air and drifts the snow
And I imagine kissing you under the mistletoe
When springtime makes its way here
Lilac blooms reminds me of the scent of your perfume
When summer burns with heat I always get the hots for you
Go skinny dipping in the ocean where we used to do
When autumn sheds the leaves the trees are bare
When you're not here it doesn't feel the same
Remember the nights when we closed our eyes
And vowed that you and I would be in love for all time
Anytime I think about these things I shared with you
I breakdown and cry 'cause I get so emotional
Until you release me I'm bound under ball and chain
Reminiscing our love as I watch four seasons change
Chorus
This loneliness has crushed my heart
Please let me love again
'Cause I need your love to comfort me and ease my pain
Or four seasons will bring the loneliness again
Chorus
Remember the warmth of days gone by...
Send "Four Seasons of Loneliness" Ringtones to Ce
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Lover's Concerto
Ini lagu yang dikirim sayangku di radio..terima kasih sayang..
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Berfoto Di Depan ATM
Hal-hal menyebalkan buatku seperti beberapa hari yang lalu, ketika hendak mengambil ATM di Ciwalk aku terpaksa berdiri dengan sabar menunggu segerombolan wanita-wanita yang asik berfoto ria di depan ATM! Come on girls, do you have to take picture in front of it? Tidak apa-apa kalau memang hanya sebentar, tapi aku terpaksa menunggu mereka berganti-ganti pose dulu baru mereka bubaran! ckckckck..
Apakah tidak ada tempat lain yang bisa dijadikan tempat yang lebih menarik untuk mengabadikan momen bahagia ibu-ibu? Untung aku orangnya sabar dan penuh pengertian, bagaimana dengan orang lain yang sedang terburu-buru untuk mengambil uangnya di sana?
Penantian
Sufi sedaya upaya cuba untuk melampau akal fikiran dan nafsunya, kerana ia tahu inilah yang menjadi batu penghalang dalam ushanya untuk menemui kekasihnya yang sejati. Hanya setelah ia berjaya mengatasi akal fikiran dan nafsunya baru ia dapat terserap ke dalam lautan keesaan yang tidak terbatas.
Melampau akal fikiran dan menakluki nafsu bukanlah suatu kerja yang mudah, ia memerlukan komitmen yang tinggi dan masa yang amat panjang, mungkin bertahun-tahun dan mungkin juga setelah maut menghampiri ia masih tidak terlaksana. Tapi bagi sang pencinta ini bukanlah menjadi masalah kerana cintanya tidak bertepi dan ia sanggup melakukan apa saja untuk mencapai matlamatnya.
Untuk melampau akal fikiran dan nafsu sang pencinta, perlu menciptakan ruang kosong nan hening lagi tak bertepi, yang mana membolehkannya untuk menyadari kehadiran sang kekasihnya.
Yang dikasihi ingan sangat untuk memperkenalkan dirinya kepada sang pencinta, bagaimanapun ini adalah merupakan anugarah daripadanya, dan bukan kerana usaha yang dilakukan oleh sang pencinta. Jadi sang pencinta haruslah bersabar menunggu bilakah masanya yang dicinta mahu memberikan anugerah yang sangat bernilai itu.
Setelah masuk ke dalam ruang kosong nan luas itu, sang pencinta hanya bersabar menunggu, hingga yang dicinta bermurah hati untuk menyapanya, dan dengan itu bermulalah satu ikatan keesaan yang tidak akan terleraikan oleh apa pun. Dalam keheningan qalbu, sang pencinta menunggu yang dicintai, tanpa jemu dan tanpa keluh kesah, hanya berserah dengan sepenuh hati agar yang dicintai cepat dapat menegurnya. Dalam hubungan ini, tafakur adalah keadaan menunggu, agar yang dikasihi mengambilnya masuk ke dalam makam keesaan, makam kesatuan nan tak terbatas. Keadaan tenang dan bening ini tidak hanya berlaku dalam tafakur sahaja tetapi perlulah dibawa dalam kehidupan seharian.
Dengan ini sang pecinta dapat mendengarkan kata-kata nasihat, petunjuk dan bimbingan daripada yang dikasihinya. Bagaimanapun, pada peringkat awalnya, keadaan hening dan bening ini sangat sukar untuk dicapai dan dipraktikkan dalam kehidupan seharian, kerana keperluan kehidupan duniawi yang tidak mahu mengalah. Itulah sebabnya pada permulaan sang pecinta memerlukan ruang tafakur yang sunyi dan suci daripada duniawi yang mengganggu, setelah ia mantap dalam keadaan itu, barulah mudah baginya untuk membawa keheningan itu ke dalam kehidupan sehariannnya.
Dengan latihan tafakur yang berterusan fikiran dapat dikosongkan (fikiran tidak bergerak lagi) bagi membolehkan sang pecinta mendengarkan suara sang kekasihnya.
Sang pecinta harus belajar dan menjadi mahir dalam seni mendengarkan kata-kata yang akan dikatakan oleh sang kekasihnya, dia harus belajar untuk diam kerana mendengarkan hanya akan dapat dilakukan dalam suasana keheningan qalbu, dan hanya dalam keheningan sang pencinta akan dapat mendengarkan kata-kata dari yang dicintainya.
Dalam suasana yang hening dan bening itu sang pencinta juga boleh belajar untuk bertanya bagi mendapatkan bimbingan daripada sang kekasihnya. Di samping itu, dengan tenggelam dalam lautan keheningan qalbu sang pencinta dapat berbicara secara langsung dengan sang kekasihnya.
Dalam suasana kekosongan dan keheningan yang amat luas ini sang pecinta akan mendapat jawapan kepada persoalan-persoalan yang selama ini membingungkan dirinya
Tetapi kadangkala sang pecinta terpaksa menunggu lama untuk mendengarkan kata-kata daripada yang dikasihinya. Perlu diingat seni mendengarkan ini memerlukan kemahiran yang amat seni pula.
Dalam perkara ini sufi terkenal Jalaluddin Rumi, menyatakan begini ( ana biarkan dalam bahasa asalnya, kerana ana tidak mahu maksud sebenarnya tidak sampai kepada pembaca):
Make everything in you an ear, each atom of your being, and you will hear at every moment what the Source is whispering to you, just to you and for you, without any need for my words or anyone else’s. You are—we all are—the beloved of the Beloved, and in every moment, in every event of your life, the Beloved is whispering to you exactly what you need to hear and know. Who can ever explain this miracle? It simply is. Listen and you will discover it every passing moment. Listen, and your whole life will become a conversation in thought and act between you and Him, directly, wordlessly, now and always.
Secara globalnya kata-kata Rumi itu bermaksud jadikan setiap atom dalam diri ante sebagai deria telinga yang akan dapat mendengarkan kata-kata, tanpa huruf tanpa suara dan tanpa warna daripada sang kekasih bagi panduan sang pencinta setiap saat.
Kesimpulannya, melalui tafakur sang pencinta belajar tentang seni diam, receptif, kosong dan penuh perhatian. Sang pencinta belajar mendengarkan dengan telinga qalbunya. Dengan mengatasi fikiran dan nafsu dalam tafakur sang pecinta juga belajar untuk memulangkan atau menyerahkan dirinya kepada penciptanya yang tidak dapat difikirkan dan dibayangkan dan yang maha meliputi.
Dalam tafakur juga qalbu sang pencinta disinari cahaya Ilahi, yang secara fizikalnya dapat mengubah tekstur qalbu, membuatkannya lebih mudah dibimbing olah sang kekasihnya.
Semoga bermanfaat
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