Your Soul is Welcoming

You are a warm hearted and open minded person. It's easy for you to forgive and forget. You are a grounded person, but you also leave room for imagination and dreams. You feet may be on the ground, but you're head is in the clouds. You believe that people see you as larger than life and important. While this is true, they also think you're a bit full of yourself. Your near future is a lot like the present, and as far as you're concerned, that's a very good thing. For you, love is all about caring and comfort. You couldn't fall in love with someone you didn't trust.

Inside the Room of Your Soul

What The House Test Says About You

What the House Test Says About You

You consider yourself important, but no more important than anyone else. You love attention, but you don't feel like you deserve more of it than anyone else. You aren't against being community oriented, but it's not really your thing. You tend to prefer to focus on your family and not the neighborhood around you. You are a social, friendly, and giving person. You like to bring people together and make them feel happy. You look attractive, but mostly because your rely on your natural good looks to get by. You are moved by romance and love. You are optimistic about people, and you love hearing about happy endings.

The House Test

Peaceful

You Are 70% Peaceful

You are a very peaceful person. All is good in your world, no matter what's going on. Occasionally you let your problems get to you, but you generally remain upbeat. Your inner strength is inspirational - much more so than you may realize.

How Peaceful Are You?

       

Hands To Heaven By Breathe

This song has a deep meaning for me..

Loving You, Shanice

All I Am..Heatwave

You Are Left Brained in Love

When it comes to love, you try to be as rational as possible. Your head doesn't lead you astray. You believe that love should never be blind, and you're not the type to get swept away easily. You are a cool customer when you fall for someone. You are able to look at things directly. You believe the honesty is key to a good relationship. You also try to be dependable and trustworthy.

Are You Right Brained or Left Brained in Love?

True Passion..

Your True Passion is Leadership

You feel most alive when you are bringing out the best in people. It brings out the best in you in return. You love to teach others and guide them. You are very patient. Giving back is important to you. You want to make the world a better place, and you know you can't do it alone. You need a team supporting you. For you, there's nothing more satisfying than a group of people working toward a common goal. Especially if you're leading that group.

What's Your True Passion?

Your Happy Word is "Bliss"

You are happy because you don't need a lot to be content. You experience happiness in the best and worst of times. You see the divine in everything. You believe that every moment, person, and creature is unique and special. You are an oasis of calm in this chaotic world. You never lose your head. You can feel totally elated and exuberant from the smallest pleasures. You don't hold back when it comes to ecstasy.

What's Your Happy Word?

You Always Attend to Your Emotions

You find expressing your emotions to be quite natural. You just say and show how you feel. You balance heart and head when conducting your life. Facts matter, but feelings matter too. You are somewhat emotionally responsive. You react emotionally, but you are not overly sensitive. You are an extremely empathetic person. You find it easy to put yourself in someone else's shoes.

The Five Factor Emotional Intelligence Test

       

Compassion

People Envy Your Compassion

You have a kind heart and an unusual empathy for all living creatures. You tend to absorb others' happiness and pain. People envy your compassion, and more importantly, the connections it helps you build. And compassionate as you are, you feel for them.

What Do People Envy About You?

Blogthings: Learn Something Surprising About Yourself

       

Agreeable..

You Are Agreeable

You are mild mannered and pleasant. People truly enjoy your policy. You are willing to compromise, and you always meet others more than halfway. You are interesting and lively. You have great stories to tell, and you make for good company. You are both enchanting and charming. Others find you merry and witty.

The Watercolor Flowers Test

Blogthings: 100's of Fun, Free Quizzes and 3 Stupid Ones

       

Your Little Black Dress Say That You're..

Your Little Black Dress Says You're Enchanting

You are chic, worldly, and charming. You naturally fascinating and popular. You never feel like pretending to be someone you're not. Your style is simple, flattering, and always appropriate. You fill your closet with well quality, timeless items. If you were a shoe, you would be: Open toed heels

The Little Black Dress Test

Blogthings: A Fine Line Between Insight and Stupidity

       

You Are Balanced

You are a peaceful and content person. You don't ask too much of yourself or those around you. You are confident and self-assured. You never try to be someone you're not - you believe that you are enough. You have a healthy skepticism about the world. You don't buy into a lot of mainstream values. You've found a better way to live - through deep reflection and understanding yourself.

Are You Bouncy, Bold, Behaved, or Balanced?

Blogthings: 100's of Fun, Free Quizzes and 3 Stupid Ones

       

You Are Sympathetic Joy

You are a simply happy person. You choose to be content, and you take pleasure from the smallest things. You especially find joy in the happiness of others. You believe that happiness is contagious. You are not an envious or jealous person. In fact, you believe those emotions are toxic. You find a lot of joy in life's simple pleasures. Something as small as a sunny day can lift your spirits.

Which of the Four Divine States Are You?

Blogthings: A Fine Line Between Insight and Stupidity

My Precious Ring

Aku telah menemukan kembali sebuah cincin yang pernah sangat berarti untukku.  Telah lama aku mencari-cari cincin ini, yang aku pikir seseorang telah mengambilnya dari laci perhiasanku.  Cincin ini adalah cincin kawinku.  

Meskipun ini tidak ada artinya lagi sekarang,   maksudku..bukan sebagai simbol ikatan suci lagi, melainkan hanya sebuah cincin emas putih dengan tujuh butir berlian lambang bulan pernikahan kami dulu.  Sebuah cincin yang sangat indah.  

Cincin tersebut adalah pemberian dari mantan suamiku.  Ia yang memilih sendiri sebagai cincin kawin kami.  Sesungguhnya aku hanya ingin sebuah cincin yang sederhana dengan hanya sebuah berlian saja diatasnya, tapi dia yang pada akhirnya memilih untuk ku Aku merasa sangat dicintai saat itu.  Meskipun pada akhirnya cerita indah itu hanya sesingkat fairy tale dalam sebuah buku dongeng anak-anak. 

Senang sekali rasanya ketika menemukannya terselip diantara pernak-pernik lain.  Rupanya aku memang sengaja menyembunyikan cincin ini diantara barang-barang yang tidak berharga, supaya orang lain tidak dapat menemukannya.  Bukan hanya cincin yang kutemukan, tapi charm bracelet emasku pun ada bersamanya.  Barang-barang pemberiannya memang masih kusimpan dengan baik hingga saat ini.  Bukan karena masih cinta pada mantan suami, tapi karena ini bukan sebuah perhiasan biasa, melainkan emas!

Meskipun ada cerita pahit dibaliknya, benda ini akan selalu aku simpan selamanya.  Mungkin suatu hari nanti, anakku  yang akan memberikan cincin ini untuk wanita pilihannya tercinta. Benda-benda tersebut memang sangat berharga untukku, karena semuanya mengingatkan bahwa aku pernah berarti bagi seseorang. 

(bukan gambar asli)

Teach Your Children to Love Reading

Many children just love reading books naturally. However, some children do not. If your child is not feeling the love for books or you want to get a head start, try talking to other parents. Look for parents whose children always seem to be engrossed in books. Chances are, they'll have some wonderful tips. As a mother of voracious readers, I've learned several things on the way. Great ways to increase your child's love for books can come from both simple and unexpected places.

Read every day. Reading to your child every day can go a long way in instilling a love from reading. Starting this ritual while the child is still in the womb can also make the reading more familiar, which can help a child naturally enjoy reading. If you can, read with your child more than once per day. Be sure that once your child can read, you read to him once per day, but that he also reads to himself at least once per day. Both oral and visual stimulation are needed in order for a child to fully grasp the knowledge and love of reading and books.

Let your child choose the stories. There are some times when your child will have to read particular books. But be sure that your child also gets to make her own selections regularly. Children will be more receptive to reading if it isn't always about what someone else wants. It's perfectly fine if some things they choose are not exactly educational. Let them have some fun with reading too. They're more likely to learn from reading if they are interested in it.

Attend story time at the library. When kids see that others are interested in reading, it can open them up to its value. Story time can also be quite fun. Often there are activities involved in the story that your child can participate in. Story time may involve instruments, puppets, dancing, singing, stomping, shouting, and more. This helps make books more fun for your child. It also helps to provide a more rounded exposure to books.

Have a family reading circle. When reading is made into a family event, it can help create a natural love for books. This is because most kids respond to something that is done repetitively and with those they love. To create a family reading circle, gather comfortable furniture (such as pillows, bean bags, or cozy chairs) in a circle shape and choose a few books. Each person can take turns passing the book around and reading a few lines. For older children, novels that are read from a few chapters at a time are good as well.

Play reading games. Much like story time, reading games bring out the fun and imagination that comes from books. There is no right or wrong way to read a story. It can be read straight from cover to cover or it can be acted out or used as a base for a game. Teaching a child to love books does not have to be boring. Remember, you want them to know there is fun to be had. I like to invent games to play with my kids during reading, such as "Stop and Read and "Reading Charades." Use nothing but the book, use costumes and props, and even use pre-packaged reading games.

There's no limit to the games and fun to be had while reading books. Be sure you instill that in your child through consistent action. In no time he'll have a love for books you never dreamed was possible.

5 Ways To Get Your Children To Love Reading 

Pencegahan Kanker Serviks

Kanker serviks atau kanker leher rahim (sering juga disebut kanker mulut rahim) merupakan kanker yang menyerang kaum wanita dan jumlah penderitanya meningkat beberapa tahun belakangan. Dari seluruh penderita kanker di Indonesia, sepertiganya adalah penderita kanker serviks. Kanker ini memang merupakan pembunuh wanita yang menakutkan. Berikut adalah beberapa pencegahannya:

#1. Jauhi rokok, sudah diketahui efek samping nikotin adalah menyebabkan kanker.
#2. Tidak menggunakan sabun khusus daerah intim wanita, douching dapat menyebabkan iritasi pada daerah intim wanita.  Bahan-bahan kimia tidak baik untuk kesehatan organ intim, selain dapat membunuh bakteri alami baik yang bisa menghalau kuman-kuman atau virus.
#3. Sering mengganti pakaian dalam, dan gunakan CD dengan bahan yang nyaman dan bisa membuat kulit seputar organ intim bernapas dengan baik.
#4. Tidak menggunakan panty liner, karena panty liner menyebabkan keringat berlebihan dan dapat mengganggu kelembaban organ intim, serta dapat meningkatkan berkembang biaknya kuman-kuman dan bakteri.
#5. Sering mengganti pembalut setiap hari ketika datang bulan.
#6. TIDAK BERGONTA GANTI PASANGAN, hindarkan seks bebas ini adalah alasan yang paling kuat untuk tidak berganti-ganti pasangan karena peringkat pertama penularan penyakit seksual adalah melalui hubungan intim.
#7. Tidak berhubungan seksual terlalu dini, ini khususnya peringatan untuk para remaja dibawah umur.
#8. Melakukan check papsmear enam bulan sekali, dan melakukan vaksin hpv untuk mencegah terjadinya kanker.

Semoga pengetahuan ini bermanfaat untuk teman-teman wanitaku.

Still..

I have been down many roads in my life that lead me to many places, but the road that lead me to you is a journey I will never forget.